Hello gang!

I have got a new ladyfriend in mindano, we have been getting along great and decided yesterday that we would concerntrate on each other and not chat to others, as she was very concerned that she was one of many.

I told her i could possibly visit her around Christmas time if things continue to go well, then she told me that if i visit her there will be no sex before marriage. She tells me shes stil a virgin and only ever had 1 other boyfrind in her life.

Although i admire her ideals, i feel a bit dissapointed. I have been reading that a cleaver person will get to know his future wife, very very well, before marriage is decided, even making multiple trips over there.

Is this the norm???