No sex before marriage??

[bornatbirth]

Although i admire her ideals, i feel a bit dissapointed. I have been reading that a cleaver person will get to know his future wife, very very well, before marriage is decided, even making multiple trips over there.

Is this the norm???

shouldnt you get a divorce first?

when you meet the lucky girl,do you really think they are queueing up to have sex when there foreigner bf visits for the first time

why will you be so disappointed,courting your future wife and meeting her family and getting to know each other in person is more important than heading to the hotel room before you can wipe the sweat from your brow as you exit the airport and the heat hits you?

wouldnt you be better off going straight to the girly bars

what part dont you understand

all of it?