fiancee or spouse?

[neallie]

hello folks..im back..we have decided that we will go either fiancee or marriage visa..we gotta do whatever will be best for us just to be together..we were supposed to file the vis this sept but unfortunately we lost all our chat logs from july to mid august bec the laptop that ive been using has been reformat..oh well..lucky me..lol..anyway so we came up with the idea of him going back again so we could have stronger evidence..take lots of pictures the apply..and on the other side if possible we will take the outher route which is sppuse..only if he could stay here for 3 mos..bec we wouyld like to find out as well if we could really be togther for reall.we couldnt have mistakes about it cos it freaking serious..so we want to be sure..and i cant marry this year bec of some superstitious belief which is sukob..my sister got married this year so i have to wait till january though i hardly believe on it..do you think guys it will be possible for him to find a job here for 3 mos?and what are the things that we need to settle..thank you..

Hang on a minute in your posting your the one who said "only if he could stay here for 3 mos..bec we wouyld like to find out as well if we could really be togther for reall." Doesnt sound very convincing to us!!

[steadyfornow]

Hang on a minute in your posting your the one who said "only if he could stay here for 3 mos..bec we wouyld like to find out as well if we could really be togther for reall." Doesnt sound very convincing to us!!

if you are not convinced..then i respect that..everyone is entitled to their own opinion..and we know we can never pleased everbody..i still thank you though for making an effort to reply in my post..