Hello guys,
After the headaches and all the paper work it has been worth it!!! I have been to collect my family visit visa this morning. I went last week (monday) to submit my application and receive a text message saturday to pick up my visa. We have already booked our flights and I am very happy that I can go with my husband.
I wish you guys that are going to the same process 'all the luck' and if we can be of any help to the group through our experience we will only be too glad to help.