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    For tawi2, i guess i am extra cautious as i dont want to be treated as milking a british guy for my own personal problem.. A real woman for a relationship comes clean though she got a past to sort Out.. My BF is quite lucky.. after being so patient and understanding for him and after posting that he remained to be hiding something from me.. I really felt.. He missed a chance for a woman who can stand beside him.. we just parted ways..........best for us........


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    Quote Originally Posted by eagles View Post
    For tawi2, i guess i am extra cautious as i dont want to be treated as milking a british guy for my own personal problem.. A real woman for a relationship comes clean though she got a past to sort Out.. My BF is quite lucky.. after being so patient and understanding for him and after posting that he remained to be hiding something from me.. I really felt.. He missed a chance for a woman who can stand beside him.. we just parted ways..........best for us........
    Hi Eagles, sorry to hear that. You seem to be a tough person so surely you'll get over it and find another love.

    I think I will agree with Tawi that not everyone has got the resources to sustain an expensive annulment. As you may know, the cost of annulment is not even a year's salary for some in the Philippines. In most cases, the money is not exactly the issue but it's more on the willingness of the other person to help his girlfriend out to be free from any liabilities so they can eventually be together. I would like to believe that if NewShoes' girlfriend has got enough money to spend for her own annulment, then she won't hesitate to handle that herself as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.piggy View Post
    Hi Eagles, sorry to hear that. You seem to be a tough person so surely you'll get over it and find another love.

    I think I will agree with Tawi that not everyone has got the resources to sustain an expensive annulment. As you may know, the cost of annulment is not even a year's salary for some in the Philippines. In most cases, the money is not exactly the issue but it's more on the willingness of the other person to help his girlfriend out to be free from any liabilities so they can eventually be together. I would like to believe that if NewShoes' girlfriend has got enough money to spend for her own annulment, then she won't hesitate to handle that herself as well.
    When love calls sometimes we need to take the risk. If he thinks she is real and there is love that truly for both of them, then take the chance to pay for the cost...follow your instinct and maybe you will find the diamond through her after all
    There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.


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    if it feels right do it [its your money not ours]

    i think i would actualy meet before i was even thinking of sending /helping your chatmate

    believe me before you even start on this adventure i would do some serious thinking because believe me its not easy,there are many pitfalls on the way and thats before you even consider the cost financial and to your sanity

    believe me my friend it is bloody hard work at times


    would i do it again NOT ON YOUR BLOODY LIFE


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Thats the thing about this forum,we all have different experiences but no way do I agree with John that having a relationship with someone who has a child is a problem,did you have children yourself John when you married your wife?I would truthfully rather marry someone almost the same age as me even though they had a child than marry someone with such a large age chasm,children ready-made or not bring happiness into a relationship and are part of the scene,but thats what I said,we all have different life experiences,,go with your instincts NS.
    if everyone had the same views it would be very boring the odd person just winds each of us up i am sure ,with there views i am sure my outspoken views ruffle a few feathers sometimes

    differences of opinions make an interesting debate without it is boring

    life is for living we make decisions sometimes we get it wrong that i am afraid is life enjoy it while you can


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    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.piggy View Post
    Hi Eagles, sorry to hear that. You seem to be a tough person so surely you'll get over it and find another love.

    I think I will agree with Tawi that not everyone has got the resources to sustain an expensive annulment. As you may know, the cost of annulment is not even a year's salary for some in the Philippines. In most cases, the money is not exactly the issue but it's more on the willingness of the other person to help his girlfriend out to be free from any liabilities so they can eventually be together. I would like to believe that if NewShoes' girlfriend has got enough money to spend for her own annulment, then she won't hesitate to handle that herself as well.
    hello im very agree with you miss piggy. its not really the money issue.. its the willingness..if you love someone and if you really can do it !! thats love


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