For tawi2, i guess i am extra cautious as i dont want to be treated as milking a british guy for my own personal problem.. A real woman for a relationship comes clean though she got a past to sort Out.. My BF is quite lucky.. after being so patient and understanding for him and after posting that he remained to be hiding something from me.. I really felt.. He missed a chance for a woman who can stand beside him.. we just parted ways..........best for us........