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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Thats the thing about this forum,we all have different experiences but no way do I agree with John that having a relationship with someone who has a child is a problem,did you have children yourself John when you married your wife?I would truthfully rather marry someone almost the same age as me even though they had a child than marry someone with such a large age chasm,children ready-made or not bring happiness into a relationship and are part of the scene,but thats what I said,we all have different life experiences,,go with your instincts NS.
    if everyone had the same views it would be very boring the odd person just winds each of us up i am sure ,with there views i am sure my outspoken views ruffle a few feathers sometimes

    differences of opinions make an interesting debate without it is boring

    life is for living we make decisions sometimes we get it wrong that i am afraid is life enjoy it while you can


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    You dont ruffle feathers Dave,you pluck them right out I was just thinking,the happiest houses your ever going to go in are filled with kids,whats wrong with marrying someone your compatible with if they already have a child?He is only in his 40's,its not exactly old age,kids are great,they rejuvinate and invigorate,they have a surplus of energy and happiness thats contagious
    nothing bad having a wife with a child from a previous marriage its like getting a package a wife plus an instant child
    There once was a girl that believed in mankind, that there was still honor and chivalry that existed in everyone of us. She also believed that everyone deserves a chance to prove oneself individually and hoped that the courtesy would be returned. That girl is dead now, and all that is left is her shadow. To give one a chance to prove thyself is a chance for you to become dwindled in the dissappointment.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    You dont ruffle feathers Dave,you pluck them right out I was just thinking,the happiest houses your ever going to go in are filled with kids,whats wrong with marrying someone your compatible with if they already have a child?He is only in his 40's,its not exactly old age,kids are great,they rejuvinate and invigorate,they have a surplus of energy and happiness thats contagious
    i once said i would never take on a women with a child but my view was based on looking at british kids i am sorry philipino kids are different respect ect , so i end up with MRs T who had a 2 year old when we met [he thinks i am his real papa anyway] and as i cant give her a child that is her blessing from before


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    You dont ruffle feathers Dave,you pluck them right out I was just thinking,the happiest houses your ever going to go in are filled with kids,whats wrong with marrying someone your compatible with if they already have a child?He is only in his 40's,its not exactly old age,kids are great,they rejuvinate and invigorate,they have a surplus of energy and happiness thats contagious
    Very well said I doubt I could have put it any better

    New Shoes, don't worry about what other people are going to say, it is your happiness that counts. And if this woman makes you happy, then a child should simply give you more of an imputus to make sure the relationship works. Plus, you get to be a stepdad. A role either hated or admired! People will talk about you like you walk on hallowed ground if you are a good father figure to this child, and as Tawi said; once you have your own family you will suddenly find more energy and want to go to Alton Towers or other such places on bank holidays. You'll start to think about the weekend as a time to play, not just relax You will proabaly have a brand new lease of life

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    You dont ruffle feathers Dave,you pluck them right out I was just thinking,the happiest houses your ever going to go in are filled with kids,whats wrong with marrying someone your compatible with if they already have a child?He is only in his 40's,its not exactly old age,kids are great,they rejuvinate and invigorate,they have a surplus of energy and happiness thats contagious
    If I had stayed my secular insular old self I would have missed out on the best times in my entire life.

    Being with a family in the Phils is not a trial but a joy having all ages together is a marvelous thing, it's dead easy to become way too old before your time, I think that is a big problem in the west.

    I could not agree more!


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