Very well saidOriginally Posted by Tawi2
You dont ruffle feathers Dave,you pluck them right outI was just thinking,the happiest houses your ever going to go in are filled with kids,whats wrong with marrying someone your compatible with if they already have a child?He is only in his 40's,its not exactly old age,kids are great,they rejuvinate and invigorate,they have a surplus of energy and happiness thats contagious
I doubt I could have put it any better
New Shoes, don't worry about what other people are going to say, it is your happiness that counts. And if this woman makes you happy, then a child should simply give you more of an imputus to make sure the relationship works. Plus, you get to be a stepdad. A role either hated or admired! People will talk about you like you walk on hallowed ground if you are a good father figure to this child, and as Tawi said; once you have your own family you will suddenly find more energy and want to go to Alton Towers or other such places on bank holidays. You'll start to think about the weekend as a time to play, not just relax
Good luck!
