Guys, I think I Need A Reality Check...Help Me Out Please!

[pacificelectric]

>I have been in a long-term, living together relationship (6 years) with a Filipina who was already here in the UK so I'm aware of the highs and lows and frustrations of living together with a Filipina.

I appreciate that evey individual and situation are different but would you mind elaborating on that? Just to have an idea of what to expect (even if I got the promise that there would be no tampo and no sundang fencing..)

[New Shoes]

I appreciate that evey individual and situation are different but would you mind elaborating on that? Just to have an idea of what to expect (even if I got the promise that there would be no tampo and no sundang fencing..)

Oh boy! You're asking something there!

I appreciate and understand why you asked that question. I don't think your question could be answered properly here.

I think you'd be beter off starting a new thread where all the guys who have experienced living long-term with a Filipina can make a contribution.

[trader dave]

>I have been in a long-term, living together relationship (6 years) with a Filipina who was already here in the UK so I'm aware of the highs and lows and frustrations of living together with a Filipina.


fair comments on your part .....the point i was trying to make was the LDR IT IS HARD many highs many lows many tampos arguments .......

i lived with a pilipina for 10years but nothing COULD HAVE PREPARED ME FOR THE TURBULANCE OF AN LDR

[New Shoes]

>I have been in a long-term, living together relationship (6 years) with a Filipina who was already here in the UK so I'm aware of the highs and lows and frustrations of living together with a Filipina.


fair comments on your part .....the point i was trying to make was the LDR IT IS HARD many highs many lows many tampos arguments .......

i lived with a pilipina for 10years but nothing COULD HAVE PREPARED ME FOR THE TURBULANCE OF AN LDR

Ah, I see what you were getting at Dave. Thanks for the input. I'm sure I'll be asking for more advice in the near future.

Thanks again!

[JimOttley]

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fair comments on your part .....the point i was trying to make was the LDR IT IS HARD many highs many lows many tampos arguments .......

i lived with a pilipina for 10years but nothing COULD HAVE PREPARED ME FOR THE TURBULANCE OF AN LDR

OMG oh dear me, yes how I understand

When we started out we didn't actually expect a solution we thought we just had to be in the Phils together somehow, but as time went by expectations changed because solutions to some problems created new openings and life develops, new babies come along, plans change.

Coping with the constantly changing plans in an LDR is really really hard


Jim