help please

[ginapeterb]

Kenny

People are going to be reluctant to read your post when you group it together in only 1 paragraph, for anyone remotely trying to assist you, they will become disinterested when they see how you have written your request.

Secondly, your spelling mistakes do not help, if you re-write your post, I will read it, until then, I refuse to trawl through it and de-cypher what you have tried to ask.

[marlyn&kenny]

My apolagees, sory i am dyslexic and yes my grammer is terible and spelling to. Nothing i can do being dyslexic is so hard. sorry. kenny

[marlyn&kenny]

hi, im marlyn. I was so happy to inform my fiance about this site and suggest we should sign up to become a member (so we are now), But this happiness turned us into a hurt couple.

I understand you are a moderator and have all the rights whatever you wish to write on all threads, but i find you very rude of telling my fiance like that! JUST BECAUSE OF WRONG GRAMMAR AND SPELLING... YOU MAYBE VERY CLEVER (OUTSTANDING!!!) BUT PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE, (FYI, NOBODY IS PERFECT!)
I'M JUST SO HURT SIR/MA'AM GINAPETERB.

[pumpkins]

hi, im marlyn. I was so happy to inform my fiance about this site and suggest we should sign up to become a member (so we are now), But this happiness turned us into a hurt couple.

I understand you are a moderator and have all the rights whatever you wish to write on all threads, but i find you very rude of telling my fiance like that! JUST BECAUSE OF WRONG GRAMMAR AND SPELLING... YOU MAYBE VERY CLEVER (OUTSTANDING!!!) BUT PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE, (FYI, NOBODY IS PERFECT!)
I'M JUST SO HURT SIR/MA'AM GINAPETERB.

hi marlyn and kenny, sorry about the moderator replied on your post.he must be tired when he was reading your thread so must be grumpy that time, like my husband when he is tired especially last night he was so grumpy to me, irritable and bad mood. ..
i knew ginapeterb the moderator giving a helpful advice to members here, but to be honest i was shocked when he replied those words like that..it was'nt nice to say that especially to those new member here.i would also hurt by that.
i noticed also that the spellings are not right but you can still understand what is the word mean, for ex.. ebassy-embassy,overdraught-overdraft,citizan-citizen.. so those words can still understand even wrong spelling so it does'nt matter, we are not in a spelling quiz bee.

and also i would advice the new members here not to be too sensitive of what other members replies because you will be encounter some rude and judgemental members here and you will get used to that..
i am not good in english but i still try my best to deliver myself clearly here coz i dont want to be scolded by other member / moderators or whoever ...

to ginapeterb- a message from my husband
"writing is peter's strength..like gym is mine...how would he feel if he came into the gym while i was there and i critisized him for being fat and told him to loose weight before he came back into the gym before i would help him...he too would feel pretty bad.....same thing what peter is doin to the other guy"

most of these people are from the north of england so he said its there nature to be that way.. rude..so take no notice.

CHEERS for all..
Pikon is not allowed here

[Sim11UK]

Hi.....for a start, I wouldn't bother using a consultant. All the information can be found here & on Pete's site...You just need to take your time to find things out.
Most of us have encountered problems, along the way, so don't think it is just you, believe me we've all been there.

It's very unlikely, you would get a visit visa, so keep working towards getting a fiance or spouse visa....Given some time, they are very much acheivable.

[trader dave]

pikon PIKON PIKON funny MRS T is always calling me that THATS BECAUSE OF LDR

my advice is to research this site all the answers are on here as PIKON PETE SAID

all i will say is slow down take your time because it is going to be a hard struggle and many times you will feel like throwing the towel in thats what an LDR does to you thats not to mention the damage to the bank balance and your sanity

dont bother trying to get a cheap fix like a visitors visa because i done that 3 times waste of money your only way forward in my view is to get married in the philippines and remember that is a lifetime commitement or is it a lifetime sentence

[NtoN]

[QUOTE=Sim11UK;171037]Hi.....for a start, I wouldn't bother using a consultant....

Hello Marlyn & Kenny! I support Sim11UK on this..i mean having a consultant. My fiance & I, for one, have been together here in the Philippines for only 17 days but was granted a fiancee visa a week ago. We personally met on December 2008 after 8mos of continuous communication.

When we applied for a fiancee visa last April, we submitted everything to support our claims and I have to sincerely thank this site for this. As to evidence of relationship, I submitted the following:

1) My mobile phone's Statements of Account (from April 2008-March 2009) highlighting his number;
2) Screenshot of our daily emails since day 1 (I have to thank myself for being sentimental ). I also printed out some emails;
3) Our pictures together with corresponding documents (e.g. our pictures taken in Boracay - next page are the plane tickets, terminal fees, hotel booking & food receipts)

Just do your research & be guided by reading the threads relative to applying a visa. This forum will surely address some of your concerns. Good luck!

[marlyn&kenny]

THank you so much for your welcome and well wishing. ITs hard being dyslexic but i am inteligent and will get there.I should have stated i am dyslexic from the start.Its just i wanted help not judgement or sympathy. I am going back to the philippines after one year of our meeting. We spent two weeks toghether then.
So when i go back this october 18, how posible do u think it is to obtain a visa before i leave ( love to bring her home with me )I will be there for one month and getting marriied in that time to. I have the money to do it but most has come in a lump sum. So my bank statements dont show regular savings. Infact they show me in ( agread overdraft ) a couple of times.Most say i need to show six months with savings over 2000 !!
Warm regards. Kenny and Marlyn.

[marlyn&kenny]

hi marlyn and kenny, sorry about the moderator replied on your post.he must be tired when he was reading your thread so must be grumpy that time, like my husband when he is tired especially last night he was so grumpy to me, irritable and bad mood. ..
i knew ginapeterb the moderator giving a helpful advice to members here, but to be honest i was shocked when he replied those words like that..it was'nt nice to say that especially to those new member here.i would also hurt by that.
i noticed also that the spellings are not right but you can still understand what is the word mean, for ex.. ebassy-embassy,overdraught-overdraft,citizan-citizen.. so those words can still understand even wrong spelling so it does'nt matter, we are not in a spelling quiz bee.

and also i would advice the new members here not to be too sensitive of what other members replies because you will be encounter some rude and judgemental members here and you will get used to that..
i am not good in english but i still try my best to deliver myself clearly here coz i dont want to be scolded by other member / moderators or whoever ...

to ginapeterb- a message from my husband
"writing is peter's strength..like gym is mine...how would he feel if he came into the gym while i was there and i critisized him for being fat and told him to loose weight before he came back into the gym before i would help him...he too would feel pretty bad.....same thing what peter is doin to the other guy"

most of these people are from the north of england so he said its there nature to be that way.. rude..so take no notice.

CHEERS for all..
Pikon is not allowed here

THanks guys, I have lived with dyslexia for 50 years. Not many understand, and judgement is ready and avalable.It seams other disabliitys are acsepted but grammer and bad spelling are frouned upon. Thanks guys, god bless. Kenny and Marlyn.

[pumpkins]

PEACE to all
To marlyn and kenny Goodluck to your application
Just keep reading here guys.there are many relevant information here that you can get. Pete's site is very informative site.

God Bless...

[marlyn&kenny]

thank you so so much for your welcome and support. God be with you allways and forever. regards kenny and marlyn.

[marlyn&kenny]

Thank you so much for your welcomers and advice. I am sure its my own fault for not stating i am dyslexic.Its a fantastic site and he is doing a fantastic job. Thjis is much hardr for me being dyslexic.WArm regards and gods love. Kenny and Marlyn.

[Sim11UK]

Nobody would have a go at you intentionally, if they knew you were dyslexic.
It must be very frustrating at times, expressing yourself on a forum like this.

Threads usually take a few days, before the replies start to come in... People haven't always got the time, to answer straight away.

You'll get there in time. ...Good luck!

[Arthur Little]

Welcome, Marlyn & Kenny.

"Writing" is MY strength too BUT, having said that, I can empathise with YOUR situation, Kenny ... as my son [37] is also dyslexic.

Marlyn, please be assured that ... far from meaning to be offensive ... Pete is keen to help newcomers and/or fellow forumers alike in every way possible ... based on his extensively knowledgable experience and expertise (which is second to none) in relation to Filipino culture. Indeed, he was one of the first to greet ME when I was a 'Newbie' here, between my two visits to the Phils last year. And thanks, in no small measure, to his wise counsel - in conjunction with the guidance of others on this site - I was able to defy the odds *against my Filipina wife obtaining a Spouse Visa *due to my being retired on an occupational pension.

With regard to spelling errors ... again, don't worry about these ... NOBODY is perfect! Besides, they have absolutely no bearing on a person's overall intelligence ... for instance, spelling has always been one of MY strong points while, on the other hand, my son-in-law is a teacher of Physics - yet HIS [spelling] has never been. Yet HE is the one with a University Degree ... something which I DON'T possess. Each and every one of us is unique in his or her own way.

I shall leave you both to be guided by the advice offered to you by others in the meantime, and which you will, no doubt, continue to receive. But in so doing, I would simply ask that you try to follow Pete's suggestion by 'paragraphing' subsequent posts in order to make their content easier to read and digest.

Thanks in anticipation ... and Good Luck!

[marlyn&kenny]

Nobody would have a go at you intentionally, if they knew you were dyslexic.
It must be very frustrating at times, expressing yourself on a forum like this.

Threads usually take a few days, before the replies start to come in... People haven't always got the time, to answer straight away.

You'll get there in time. ...Good luck!

Thank you so much. ITs clear to me now i should have said i am dyslexic from the start.All my own fault.Yes its so very hard to express myself on this forum, and to write letters . THe papers to me are a nightmare, but my inteligence is all in order,and we wil get there. God bles you and good luck to you to. regards kenny and marlyn

[marlyn&kenny]

Kenny

People are going to be reluctant to read your post when you group it together in only 1 paragraph, for anyone remotely trying to assist you, they will become disinterested when they see how you have written your request.

Secondly, your spelling mistakes do not help, if you re-write your post, I will read it, until then, I refuse to trawl through it and de-cypher what you have tried to ask.

I spent 50 years coping with this disabilty, i am dyslexic. Sorry its not something you blow trumpetrs about. Most people just take time and patients to understand. But sorry you wernt to know. Regards kenny and marlyn.