hi Marlyn & kenny
go to www.british-filipino.com. it will explain procedures on marriage and all info you need and then things you need to confirm/clarify post it here or search the threads here. Like everyone here is saying take your time and flamiliarise yourself with which path to take. Dont take my word for it but personally i think the spouse visa will be best for you, once you are married which shows your comitment to each other and then with the correct requirements you just have to convince the ECO.
good luck
Sammy