Hi Kenny and Marlyn,
As i was reading your post i can easily digest or decipher what you really mean. You're so upset about what kind of visa to apply and your finances. For sure some members here who has experienced the same will give you advice and also about the spouse visa. I can only share my experiences as to visit and fiancee visa.
Take it easy, you'll get there. Almost all of the members here had also experienced the long wait until they were able to get together with their loved ones.
Pls do use the search button and you will find answers to your queries. Don't be bothered with your grammar or spelling, what is important is the thought and your good intent.
I agree with the saying that nobody's perfect, we just have to be more broadminded to be able to understand and forgive other peoples faults or comments against us. I just take it as a constructive criticism... or in some instances it may serve as an eye opener.
As long as you gather enough evidence of the two of you being together and in constant communication aside from other requirements on the checklist, then you will be fine. Love can move mountains!..
Best of luck.
BTW a warm welcome to the forum!
Cheers!
