Advice For Whipped Husbands.. (Birthing)

[GaryFifer]

Yawn...

bystander

Empathy does not make you less of man. Caring does not make you less of man. What you choose to do is not what I agree with. Life is precious&since you contributed 1 little sperm, you can do your best for your wife if you love her, because birth is still a stressful time no matter what. I detect a "I don't give a **** attitude" because its not you going through the pain, you are alright jack.

Perhaps you understand that annoys some guys, who don't want to take responsibility after they done the deed with the girl.

Are you going to be the bar with the guys throughout the babies life? Are you gay? You prefer male company than your own child.

[Alan]

I am disappointed with the tone of this thread. I was present at the birth of both my children and would not have had it any other way...........my partner INSISTED I be there anyway.............if she had not, then I would have left her to it - after all, we just PUT the baby there - subsequently it is the lady, giirl, girlfriend, wife who has to SUFFER - and suffer they do!

I find that this is another of those threads that should be left to the individual's point of view - and not become dictatorial, subjective or offensive.

Al.

[Tawi2]

Amen,individual choice Some want,some dont

[Florge]

Amen,individual choice Some want,some dont

Exactly! Bystander shouldn't be convincing his mate to stay out of the delivery room then right? He was excited in taking pictures or videos of his wife giving birth, so let him be... He (the mate) is not you (bystander).. so let him do what he wants...

[GaryFifer]

I am disappointed with the tone of this thread. I was present at the birth of both my children and would not have had it any other way...........my partner INSISTED I be there anyway.............if she had not, then I would have left her to it - after all, we just PUT the baby there - subsequently it is the lady, giirl, girlfriend, wife who has to SUFFER - and suffer they do!

I find that this is another of those threads that should be left to the individual's point of view - and not become dictatorial, subjective or offensive.

Al.

Well how do you feel about being called pussy whipped because ur partner INSISTED you be there? That is not needed

It is up to both the man and woman to decide.

[bystander09]

I am disappointed with the tone of this thread. I was present at the birth of both my children and would not have had it any other way...........my partner INSISTED I be there anyway.............if she had not, then I would have left her to it - after all, we just PUT the baby there - subsequently it is the lady, giirl, girlfriend, wife who has to SUFFER - and suffer they do!

I find that this is another of those threads that should be left to the individual's point of view - and not become dictatorial, subjective or offensive.

Al.

You should have grown a backbone when your wife insisted on your presence, and communicated your actual feelings.. **ssy whipped ..

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[GaryFifer]

You should have grown a backbone when your wife insisted on your presence, and communicated your actual feelings.. **ssy whipped ..

bystander

So is your woman willy whipped? The circumstance in which a woman has became completely controlled by her man-smacking the woman (usually across the face) with your willy.

[bystander09]

So is your woman dick whipped? The circumstance in which a woman has became completely controlled by her man-smacking the woman (usually across the face) with your cock.

I have no idea what you are talking about. However, it seems you have expertise in this area.. Can you please elaborate...

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[GaryFifer]

I have no idea what you are talking about. However, it seems you have expertise in this area.. Can you please elaborate...

bystander

No. first you elaborate on your assumption of pussy whipping. Dick whipping is the opposite. It is totally and utterly controlling a woman. Pay attention Benny hill.

[GaryFifer]

I think you would prefer a big buxom viking lassie called Helga who drinks like a fish and spends all her time drinking more than you. Then when the times comes she just goes over to the corner and gets on with it.

[bystander09]

No. first you elaborate on your assumption of pussy whipping. Dick whipping is the opposite. It is totally and utterly controlling a woman. Pay attention Benny hill.

I see; its an opposite term, then I don't qualify, tnx for the education... Who is Benny Hill..?? expat for 38 years..??

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[Alan]

You should have grown a backbone when your wife insisted on your presence, and communicated your actual feelings.. **ssy whipped ..

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I don't wish to be a member of a forum that allows such puerile meanderings! Goodbye everyone!

Al.

[bystander09]

I don't wish to be a member of a forum that allows such puerile meanderings! Goodbye everyone!

Al.

Hi Al..

Come back, don't throw your toys out of the pram.. If you don't like what Jock and I are talking about.. switch threads..

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[GaryFifer]

I don't wish to be a member of a forum that allows such puerile meanderings! Goodbye everyone!

Al.

That sounded like Stephen Fry.

[aromulus]

You should have grown a backbone when your wife insisted on your presence, and communicated your actual feelings.. **ssy whipped ..

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Ok, Medallion man.... Here we go..

You are 100% free to have your views and explain to other how you reached that decision, but it irks me to no end, actually it makes me slightly annoyed if not downright pissed off, when someone is actually being insulting on purpose and not give other people views a fair hearing.

Too me, personally you sound very confused and insecure in your dealings with the subject you started this thread with...

Now I will give you my personal observation, which I worked out all by myself over the years, and various attendaces in delivery rooms...

"If you are man enough to squirt it in there, you should be man enough to be there when it comes out again...."

So, quit the bitchin' and the name calling, coz it ain't too smart....

[bystander09]

Ok, Medallion man.... Here we go..

You are 100% free to have your views and explain to other how you reached that decision, but it irks me to no end, actually it makes me slightly annoyed if not downright pissed off, when someone is actually being insulting on purpose and not give other people views a fair hearing.

Too me, personally you sound very confused and insecure in your dealings with the subject you started this thread with...

Now I will give you my personal observation, which I worked out all by myself over the years, and various attendaces in delivery rooms...

"If you are man enough to squirt it in there, you should be man enough to be there when it comes out again...."

So, quit the bitchin' and the name calling, coz it ain't too smart....

In replying to this is was not sure if a simple yawn would suffice... If you cannot accept the concept of a **ssy whipped guy, then its unfortunate.
It's like being a member of the flat earth society...

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[aromulus]

Hunter gatherer that can't hack a bit of blood and gore.....

[bystander09]

I detect a "I don't give a **** attitude" because its not you going through the pain, you are alright jack.

Perhaps you understand that annoys some guys, who don't want to take responsibility after they done the deed with the girl.

I personally don't give a hoot about the pain endured during childbirth, nor do I feel any guilt surround the "deed" that leads to the pain.. One should not read into this that this translates to a lack of concern about the health of mother and child. Its you that made this baseless assumption

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[GaryFifer]

I personally don't give a hoot about the pain endured during childbirth, nor do I feel any guilt surround the "deed" that leads to the pain.. One should not read into this that this translates to a lack of concern about the health of mother and child. Its you that made this baseless assumption

bystander

Well if you care..why are u in the pub? lol

[bystander09]

Well if you care..why are u in the pub? lol

As I have mentioned before.. the delivery room is no place for a man...

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[GaryFifer]

As I have mentioned before.. the delivery room is no place for a man...

bystander

So what will u do if the midwife is a man?

[Tawi2]

So what will u do if the midwife is a man?

Wouldnt that make him a mid-husband

[bystander09]

So what will u do if the midwife is a man?

For him its just a job.. Thats what he's paid for.. He would probably prefer to be down the pub with his mates anyway..

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