tell them goya - Get Off Your and earn some money..

over the years i seem to be turning into a grumpy , when any of my misses family asked for money for whatever, they hardly ask anymore now

as iv'e said b4 its easy to waste away someone elses hard earned money, now my misses works she to feels the same way sometimes

you've got your own family here, not just in the phils, and someone ( you ? your hubby ) has to earn that money.. so spend it wisely and give them what you can afford. not what they want