My fiancee, i've been to visit her twice, over the past 3 years. Got a church booked for mid december wedding here.. the important thing is her being here though. She is 27 and i'm 39 so the age gap isnt too big, and we are both unattached, so we didn't have any complications to worry about. Just take it one day at a time now, when she gets here. Thanks for the info and all your support guys