I am spinning my head already.

Honestly, I just met this bloke during my previous visit of last year and was not in a relationship with him at that time. It is only these past few months that we started talking and had a relationship over the net. The main reason that I stayed longer than what I put in my application last year was my sisters breakdown of her marriage and her divorce issues. I had already explained these issue to the ECO in my appeal letter that I had withdrawn recently.