What happens if you say NO?

[GaryFifer]

That makes sense if your lady is going to join you here, to share with her some of the cultural differences but my friends are unlikely to visit here and I am unlikely to visit there, so my concern for now is to make sure that they have one or two of life's little comforts to help them along.

ok. I say send them a kettle and some gas. They can boil their water so its able to drink.

[bornatbirth]

i never say no to my wife because at some point she will say no to me

i have read this thread and never seen or heard anything like the topics beening posted from my wifes family.

infact because of the above stories my wifes family go out of there way to be the complete opposite,like im out to dinner with my wifes family and they didnt like it if i payed but if my wife payed it wasnt a problem even when they knew the money was from me.

i guess we all have different experiencies

[RickyR]

Marry a Filipina, marry the family.... Not fair to change a culture???

But i'm a tight yorkshireman and don't know what fair is!

[Sis Suze]

Marry a Filipina, marry the family.... Not fair to change a culture???

But i'm a tight yorkshireman and don't know what fair is!

Well I'm not marrying anyone so I'm OK...lol x