i never say no to my wife because at some point she will say no to me

i have read this thread and never seen or heard anything like the topics beening posted from my wifes family.

infact because of the above stories my wifes family go out of there way to be the complete opposite,like im out to dinner with my wifes family and they didnt like it if i payed but if my wife payed it wasnt a problem even when they knew the money was from me.

i guess we all have different experiencies