Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Interesting article P&P,particularly the part about age chasm relationships not lasting,thats more of a western concept as most young pinays in a foreign country with their older partner would be more reliant on the Hubby?At the end of the day we all have our own social and moral codes,some view a 20-30-40 year age gap as acceptable,some dont,if its mutually beneficial to both partners let them get on with it![]()
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
Hi Tawi,
You touch upon an interesting transitional concept that pervades most of these age chasm and inter generational marriages. And that is the possibility of the relationship progressing from the initial desperation phase, into a longer term dependency phase, both of which are devoid of genuine romantic notions.
AJ
How many people get to go through life without experiencing at some point desperation and or dependency in their relationships ?![]()
When your wife has just given birth she is going to be pretty dependant on you possibly for the next 5 or 6 years at least, dependency is a fundamental part of the whole reason we get involved with each other in the first place!!!
When you have just lost your job your partner is going to feel pretty desperate as are you.
Finding a partner is a specific answer to a particular type of desperation and it's not confined to long distance inter cultural relationships.
None of the above excludes love or romance.
Love, desperation, romance, dependency are part of every relationship!
I'm not saying that cynical relationships do not exist just that it is not fair to assume that the majority of relationships with generational gaps are cynical.
Jim
Inter generational, inital desperation, long term dependency. How utterly scientific of you. It's love Jim, but not as you know it.
It's time to kick ass and chew bubble gum. And I'm all out of gum.
You sound a right bundle of fun, I must say!
the states have already been quoted to you by our leader. Doesn't that tell you what works and what doesn't.
The age gap with my wife is the same as Dom's and I also love her and I know she loves me. I doubt I will get the same response you gave Dom but, then I don't care because, when you start caring what others thing about you and and your beautiful pinay wife, you have lost![]()
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
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