my late wife was 10 yrs older, my present wife is 10 yrs younger. neither of them married me out of desperation but for who i am. i wont be judged and i wont judge others for their choice of partner if it is for the right reasons. the one thing that did annoy me in the airport in manila was seeing young girls walking behind much older men who obviously had no real respect for them, they were just trophy wives/girlfriends
