Yes Iain
The guy probably feels self conscious, in that the girl in this case will be the one supplying the money to live in a western-friendly standard, and I'm sure that on some level he feels bad about that. He's just telling EnglishRose upfront, so that she won't be disappointed in him
So, EngRose, I think now, that probably you're cool
You have been with this dude for years. Enjoy your trip, then tell us all how good of a time you had
Oh, and eat some Sizzling Sizzig! It's awesome
