Sometimes love sometimes horrible

[sadly confuse]

Sadly,

Sorry to hear you are having such a bad time. Marriage is never an easy thing.

I think it is great that you enjoy drinking and clubbing. If you can find some friends to go with, there is no reason for your husband to go with you, and he should be happy to think about you enjoying yourself. Unfortunately some husbands treat Asian wives like children and don't allow them to go out and have fun!

You need to give yourself a lot of time to settle in to this strange country. You may well feel homesick for many years. If you can manage to get a job you will be less bored and more independent.

I hope everything gets better, but please keep in touch with other ladies on this forum - they know how you feel!

helollo again ian. thanks for this reply.. for all reply that i read well i like them all coz they all have points.. and it made me more clear how husband good i have.. but you know what after reading your repoy i ask my self to have a responsible husband is it enough? coz i do believe contentment and happy have a big difference meaning it self..

[Sophie]

and it made me more clear how husband good i have.. but you know what after reading your repoy i ask my self to have a responsible husband is it enough? coz i do believe contentment and happy have a big difference meaning it self..

Happiness is a state of mind....
you either choose to be happy and appreciate the good things you have now and be contented OR wallow in self pity and misery.....
Sometimes when we focus too much on the negative and the things we don't have....we overlook the good things and the more important things we have....
We get so busy moaning and focusing on trivial matters when we have a lot to be thankful about....

[James Hubbard]

Happiness is a state of mind....
you either choose to be happy and appreciate the good things you have now and be contented OR wallow in self pity and misery.....
Sometimes when we focus too much on the negative and the things we don't have....we overlook the good things and the more important things we have....
We get so busy moaning and focusing on trivial matters when we have a lot to be thankful about....

Amen sister sophie

[Sophie]

Amen sister sophie

[ron]

Sometimes money is the root of all evil and can cause many argements especially if you have too much of it. LOL

Ron

[GaryFifer]

Sometimes money is the root of all evil and can cause many argements especially if you have too much of it. LOL

Ron

I must be really really really really good. i got all

[Queenbee]

Happiness is a state of mind....
you either choose to be happy and appreciate the good things you have now and be contented OR wallow in self pity and misery.....
Sometimes when we focus too much on the negative and the things we don't have....we overlook the good things and the more important things we have....
We get so busy moaning and focusing on trivial matters when we have a lot to be thankful about....

EXACTLY!