Quote Originally Posted by pocahontas View Post
HI ALL.. its my loving husband birthday tomorrow..

i have a great gift for him that i already packed actually he already see and cant wait to open it..hehe and i have a surprise cake for him well not yet done, and i had a plan for night bday when he come home from hes work..i cant say it now coz he might right this...hes the first member of this forum thats why i know this anyway...

but my question is you think im sweet or no need because everything penny i spend to manage that for hes bday is hes own money......

i know the thoughts it counts....but whats wrong with the giving him an special something like i dont plan only for hes bday right.. id just feel a bit guilty coz its not my money but in hes own money.. well last time he gave me 50pounds so i keep it and he put a 50pounds in my debit card so thats what im using to do all of this... hm..

i'm sure it will be alright, that's really sweet

when it was my hubby's bday i didn't get him any gift bec. i don't have money of my own. just bought him a card... i thought of buying him using our debit card but i was thinking he might not appreciate it. but then he said it's alryt if i'll use our debit card to buy him a gift. so, next time i'll do that