I understand this statement from the embassy is someting to be concerned about princess, but then again, its not the end for you,
i'm sure you will still have the chance to redo things all over again and make sure this time, you redeem yourself and do everything correctly, accurately and truthfully.....
The burden of proof lies solely on your hands now....you have to prove them wrong and make sure to back up all your claims with airtight proofs
you've been together from 2005 to 2009, that's more than enough time to come up with ample evidence of the genuineness of your relationship
such as photos, chatlogs, telephone bills or statements showing details of your conversation, text messages to each other,
letter or cards as well as receipt of money he sent you for the past 4 years.....and you being married now would probably help.....
and also make sure to provide an adequate proof of your husbands capacity to support you financially and his ability to give you proper accomodation when you get here...
It's very important that you establish the legitimacy and authenticity of everything you declare in your application flawlessly.....
Be very careful and be very prepared this time and make sure to cover everything, this may be your last shot, so there should be no room for error....
Also, be ready for the embassy people to be tougher on your application this time, given the track record they established against you from the past,
so expect your papers to undergo a very tight scrutiny......which your papers and application should be prepared and be equipped for......
Best of luck on the application princess
