Hi princess, first of all, welcome to the forum
Sorry to hear about your visa refusal twice in a row.... i can understand how you must be nervous applying for the third time....
But just make sure that this time, you come up with all the necessary proof (from 2005 to present) to support the genuineness of your relationship....
And you being married now may also help....
And another thing, make sure you provide enough evidence that your hubby can support you financially when you get here.....
Those are the 2 major things you make sure to cover properly to satisfy and convince the embassy people.
Best of luck on your application and we hope you get a positive result this time.....