Sad news about Jennifer and Michael

[mickcant]

Sir, personally I think that it was premature . . . it was only two weeks. I think you could have told her to stay here for a number of months and if she still felt the same way, she could go back.

But, all things considered, given the history of your relationship, the course of events that happened could have been predicted, cooler heads prevailing. Of course, I know what it is to be blinded by love

You are a true gentleman, but you got walked over. I think you could have been tougher ... :(

Hi, do you not think I tried my best to get her to stay!!!!
I could have been branded anythink if I kept her here against her will!
I love Jennifer very much.
I realise two weeks is too short to judge on, When we married I was there 2 months, I would have willingly lived there _if_ she wanted me to and I could afford to.
Mick.

[GaryFifer]

Hi, do you not think I tried my best to get her to stay!!!!
I could have been branded anythink if I kept her here against her will!
I love Jennifer very much.
I realise two weeks is too short to judge on, When we married I was there 2 months, I would have willingly lived there _if_ she wanted me to and I could afford to.
Mick.

You respected her needs.I hope she does the same for you. No cuddles is mad! Why bloody not, after everything you do.

I mean you fought all that red tape to get her here, and she disappears. I guess once she solves those problems, she can be back again. Talk about it the issues that affect you both.

You need to tell her how this makes you feel. You needs were not fulfill.

[mickcant]

You respected her needs.I hope she does the same for you. No cuddles is mad! Why bloody not, after everything you do.

I mean you fought all that red tape to get her here, and she disappears. I guess once she solves those problems, she can be back again. Talk about it the issues that affect you both.

You need to tell her how this makes you feel. You needs were not fulfill.

Hi, Jennifer will not be coming back as far as I know.
She would ask me for the money first.
Mick.

[GaryFifer]

Hi, Jennifer will not be coming back as far as I know.
She would ask me for the money first.
Mick.

Keep your money, then go visit her.

Then you will find out whats really going on in the situation. After all a husband has a right to know. Have you seen photos of the situation? All Filipinos have camera phones, so no excuse for her not to send u a picture of where she is and what she is doing.

[lizaphil]

Keep your money, then go visit her.

Then you will find out whats really going on in the situation. After all a husband has a right to know. Have you seen photos of the situation? All Filipinos have camera phones, so no excuse for her not to send u a picture of where she is and what she is doing.

with you gary

[joebloggs]

sorry Mick

your wife is not the first to go back to the Phils after a few weeks or months, socool007's wife went back to the phils recently to , i just hope these 2 are the last ones to leave so quick.

sorry for you both

[LEAHnew]

sorry Mick

your wife is not the first to go back to the Phils after a few weeks or months, socool007's wife went back to the phils recently to , i just hope these 2 are the last ones to leave so quick.

sorry for you both

Hi Joe I might probably back home as you remember my predicament, but not to end up my relationship with my man its a matter of legal complications . at this point I felt so unfair sorry for the drama

To Mick goodluck we are all here to support you, you're not alone

[triple5]

Hi, Jennifer will not be coming back as far as I know.
She would ask me for the money first.
Mick.

Do you think you'll go visit her then when the dusts settled?

[September]

Do you think you'll go visit her then when the dusts settled?

I would not suggest for Mick to do that, I hope not

[September]

Hi, Jennifer will not be coming back as far as I know.
She would ask me for the money first.
Mick.

I Hate to say this Sir, but she never appreciate all your efforts aside spending £ for the visa/airfare and just in 2 weeks,she never had second thought of going back in PI, just a friendly advice, try to refuse or say no, if she ask for money, or financial support, when you say she isnt coming back, that sounds to me she end up the relationship, move on lwe only had one life to live, dont waste it by others making us upset

Best wishes and all the best in the future

[James Hubbard]

I Hate to say this Sir, but she never appreciate all your efforts aside spending £ for the visa/airfare and just in 2 weeks,she never had second thought of going back in PI, just a friendly advice, try to refuse or say no, if she ask for money, or financial support, when you say she isnt coming back, that sounds to me she end up the relationship, move on lwe only had one life to live, dont waste it by others making us upset

Pretty much sums up my thoughts

[IainBusby]

I'm very sorry to hear that Mick. I would have thought that after all of the effort you have put into the getting married, getting the visa and bringing her here to the UK, all of which are things she must have wanted also at some point, not to mention the money you have spent, that she would have given it a decent chance and at least have stayed a few months before making this decision.

I think she has been extremely selfish and very unfair to you and if I were you, I would have no more contact with her and I would put this whole sorry epsisode behind me and move on.

Iain.

[mickcant]

I'm very sorry to hear that Mick. I would have thought that after all of the effort you have put into the getting married, getting the visa and bringing her here to the UK, all of which are things she must have wanted also at some point, not to mention the money you have spent, that she would have given it a decent chance and at least have stayed a few months before making this decision.

I think she has been extremely selfish and very unfair to you and if I were you, I would have no more contact with her and I would put this whole sorry epsisode behind me and move on.

Iain.

Thank you Iain,
your advice is very welcolmed, I am very stunned at the moment but do think your advice sound,
Mick