[QUOTE=mickcant;181936]Hi, I have given her £3,000 towards the operations for her siblings, and did yesterday offer to pay the full cost of the treatment, she then thought I would give her the money to go home with.
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Unfortunately, I see that as another red flag.
Probably hard to realise it at the moment, but I think you're better off out
of this relationship.
I feel for you, I can only imagine the mixed feelings you're experiencing at the moment. Good luck in the future