so sad to read your story mick. I'm from Cagayan de Oro too and been here in the uk almost 10 months now and from time to time misses my mother and siblings back in the Philippines. just like to ask though if you dont mind me asking,Does Jennifer have any communication with other Filipina in your area? Or someone she can pour herself into, i know she's with you only for a very short while,maybe her mind is very preoccupied in things back home and no one she can talk to that can give her advices that everything will all be sorted back home even if she's not there . Sometimes it really also good she can talk to someone. The amount of money, time and effort you invested on your relationship is so big already, i hope and pray one day it will be sorted out for both of you. I wish you all the best.