hi mick

im not sure how you will feel,probably gutted?

after reading when your wife disappeared with the visa fee,i was surprised that she came here,so i was thinking maybe shes not so bad and willing to make it work.

i dont think this as anything to do with a age gap more of a culture gap,not micks but his wifes...whats that you can take the filipina out of the philipines but cant take the philipines out of the filipina?

when we get into LDR's,first we need is trust then we need the truth.

after meeting online we need to build a relationship with the person we are chatting to and learn to trust them,then we make the big step to go and see them to see if everything they have been chatting about is the truth.

before you even thought about marring her,you should of know all about her families situation,how do you know everything shes saying about her family is for real?

im not sure if shes just after your money or her family are some excuse to go back home,it like she only needs you when she needs money and then disappears.

can i ask how well do you know her families background ie are they poor or better off and everything shes telling you is the truth?

after just 2 weeks here shes already back home and you think she wont come back,are you sure she was really interested in a relationship with you or getting married because her families situation would of been the same before you met!

telling you to stop wasting any more time or money on her is easy but somehow the next time you talk and she asks for money,you have your answer

goodluck my friend!