Hi Mickant,
I was stunned by your post. I can't believe a spouse would just decide to leave only after 2 weeks. In my opinion, she just married for money, pls excuse me this is just my opinion and maybe wrong for some on here. Based on your previous posts and this latest, this is what i have in mind. It would be acceptable if the homesickness is due to her son or daughter left behind but her reason was to be with her sister and brother. She has a father and step mum to take care of them. She decided to get married with you and so has to keep with that commitment. She neglected you and had stepped on your rights. I suppose that is already in her plan which is to get married to you, process the visa, get into the UK then leave because her love is not that strong. If the love is strong it won't happen this way. She will stay with you no matter what.
There are some members here who have son(s) and/or daughter(s) left behind but because they have come to a decision to be with their husbands hence the sacrifice to be away from them although plans are working out for their children to be here soon. I salute these mums they were able to make sacrifice for the sake of their husbands!!
Yes there is a great difference when it comes to neighbourhood and culture but once she noticed the difference, a two-week decision to leave the country is not reasonable or acceptable. No need to elaborate on this for everyone knows the difference. I'm sure the age gap is not the reason. There are many filipinas with great age gap but are in a happy relationship.
I hope you will be able to move on very soon. You are a very loving man i can tell in your posts. You love your wife very much and was so blind to see her doing such painful and inconsiderate acts on you. All your time and money went down the drain.
Wish you will get out of this situation soon. All the best.
Regards,
P&P
