Hello Mick,
Sorry to hear of your news.
Take time to make your decision, it can take quite a while to feel better.
In the meantime, try to keep busy and not get depressed.
If it was me, I would make plans to go back over to see her in the next 6 months. I would not send any more money over.
If it is completely over in 6 months, you will feel stronger then and get some sun on your back in Phils or elsewhere in Asia.
Stay strong Mick and best of luck in whatever you decide to do.
Best of luck,
Aposhark
