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    you always seem so much fun im surprised by this post,i never expected to read this from you.

    how will going back to the philipines help how you feel,is it just the weather?

    there are many women going through the menopause,i would say talk to your hubby but as you have already spoken to your hubby about this....im not sure what to say.

    btw whos going to look after your dog and spoil him
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    You have been through an emotional turmoil by the sound of things M&M,maybe you need a trip back to pinas to re-assess your situation,you sound a little depressed,maybe SAD?Its the onset of winter,shortening days,gloomy evenings,can you have a holiday?We all feel a little down at times,sorry to hear its happening to you at the moment.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    You have been through an emotional turmoil by the sound of things M&M,maybe you need a trip back to pinas to re-assess your situation,you sound a little depressed,maybe SAD?Its the onset of winter,shortening days,gloomy evenings,can you have a holiday?We all feel a little down at times,sorry to hear its happening to you at the moment.
    yeah i can go back home for a holiday but i have to leave my son behind as he is still in school... i am so sad tawi2 :-(
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    You need a hug and a family night out to shake off the cobwebs,give your hubby and son a hug,remember your son is doing well at school at the moment,give him a big hug,chat with members of your family,its good to air problems,tell your hubbie how your feeling,emphasise how sad you currently are,havent you any pinay friends,good ones you can chat to?A problem shared is a problem halved is a problem solved,try and have a fortnight or so back home,it will do you good,its not the end solution but it will give you a boost in spirits



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    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    You need a hug and a family night out to shake off the cobwebs,give your hubby and son a hug,remember your son is doing well at school at the moment,give him a big hug,chat with members of your family,its good to air problems,tell your hubbie how your feeling,emphasise how sad you currently are,havent you any pinay friends,good ones you can chat to?A problem shared is a problem halved is a problem solved,try and have a fortnight or so back home,it will do you good,its not the end solution but it will give you a boost in spirits
    my hubby is loving a love affair with his work laptop at the moment. my son is upstairs yelling abuse at his friends over on xbox... i call home a lot and end up in tears :-(..
    i had a lovely day sopping with pinay friends but now that i am back home its back to reality that life is just so BORING
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Sad fact of life M&M life here is sometimes very boring,we have it too easy and have plenty of time to dwell on the humdrum and monotony of everyday life,flick the swutch on the fuse-box,create your own instand brownout,then when your son and hubby start looking around for the cause tell them you did it to get their attention as you need a serious family conference



    Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Sad fact of life M&M life here is sometimes very boring,we have it too easy and have plenty of time to dwell on the humdrum and monotony of everyday life,flick the swutch on the fuse-box,create your own instand brownout,then when your son and hubby start looking around for the cause tell them you did it to get their attention as you need a serious family conference
    hahahaha, trust you to find a solution to my problem tawi2... i never use to feel like this, i thought i have adjusted to life here i always was good at looking for things to do before boredom sets in...
    maybe majority of what i feel might be down to menopause and winter looming.... and also my husband working long hours, i miss the days where he marched in at 4:30 everyday, now i am lucky if i see him before 7pm...
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    you always seem so much fun im surprised by this post,i never expected to read this from you.

    how will going back to the philipines help how you feel,is it just the weather?

    there are many women going through the menopause,i would say talk to your hubby but as you have already spoken to your hubby about this....im not sure what to say.

    btw whos going to look after your dog and spoil him
    i was hoping you would look after her and spoil like her like i do
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
    i was hoping you would look after her and spoil like her like i do
    wont you miss her face when she looks up at you and wags her tale,whos going to rub her belly and hug her,its not just your husband and son whos going to miss you!
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    wont you miss her face when she looks up at you and wags her tale,whos going to rub her belly and hug her,its not just your husband and son whos going to miss you!
    if not because of my dog, i would have 'disappeared' ages ago... i feel like my son dont need me anymore, he is 16 now and can sign his own forms
    he had an eye appt last week and i was so surprised that i was not called to sign his forms and i was not called in when he was having his eyesight
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.


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