Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
I have been married to my husband for 9 years now, i know that he loves me and my son so much. But lately I have been feeling so depressed about our life here in the UK. After having been here for 17 yrs now I feel like I am ready to go back home. Our 9 yrs has been so full of trials, we have been trying to have a baby but i keep on losing them. Last year my consultant told me I should have a hysterectomy to lessen the pain and to kill any chances of the cancer returning. I did have the op and now I am on menopause aged 38. I spoke to hubby about what I feel, and he told me that if I do decide to go back home he will visit me twice a year. part of me wants to go, but i do not want to leave hubby behind :(.... i am so depressed with winter coming up... what do you guys think i should do help...
Hello maria, i'm sorry about the way you're feeling now, my advise is probably to go back home for a long vacation
instead of moving there for good..........you probably just need a break and change of atmosphere at the moment
and be with your family back home and enjoy their company for a while.....
from there, you can decide if you want to come back here or stay in the philippines for good....
You'll never know, maybe after your long vacation in pinas, you will be wanting to come back and miss uk so much already
but if you decide to stay in pinas, its inevitable for you to feel a bit torned and somewhat guilty for not being here with your hubby
but atleast your husband is so supportive about your plan of moving back home and so gracious about it and even willing to visit you twice a year....