Giving out Details

**jaishann** · 23rd October 2009

Originally Posted by bless.books

Hello jaishann! So, so sorry if you feel that. It wasnt the case. First of all, I posted this thread not bec of you but bec of what we encountered as of late. Too personal to share it here. But to just mention a bit about it - we've been receiving calls from people we met only online.

Let me just clarify things here ... for not contacting you -
Though you probably noticed I go online here on this forum (often), it doesn't necessarily mean that I go and check the email add I gave you. I have lots of email adds. bec of my/our other transactions. I am not just into buying/selling my book. I do all sorts and I communicate online. I need to have different ones to separate and not to confuse one to the other. It was only later when I read yours, which for some reason got deleted. I couldn't reply back. Having it, I could have replied back soon to make any arrangement.

Now, I am sure you are aware of what has happened to the PROUD TO BE BRTISH. Walesrobs mentioned that he received complaints from loads people with re: to my book. I wish to contact you again, having lost your email. But I am adamant bec of what walesrob has said. If you go through the PROUD TO BE BRTISH thread, you will see what I mean.

I do not wish to have an enemy nor upset anyone. I am only here to learn and maybe meet friends. I thought maybe sharing my book, will boost my confidence and lots will be pleased to know and will also be happy for me as well. But what do I get if I am to base it from walesrob msg. - it seems like I am against all odds. So, I decided not to contact you. But whether I posted this or not, I won't be able to contact you anyhow, bec I accidentally deleted the email.

Again, I am so sorry if that is what you feel. Cannot blame you for the coincidence. I posted it first, before I realised the thread was closed. And reading walesrob, I abandon the idea of contacting you again.

Maybe you are in wrong place to advertise your book.I dont need to read the thread if Walesrob closed the thread i dont think it is because of your book it is maybe (im not sure ) because they dont promote friction here.

I have sent you about 4 or 5 email so have you all deleted them by mistake? To be honest Bless I didnt think in my wildest dream that youd feel bad giving out your bank details to me as you were doing business. It is shallow idea not to contact your customer because of Walesrob, at the end of the day it is your book and not Walesrob's - you can help fili or other nationalities if you think your book is easier to use. The thing is you gave me your phone/mobile number and I didnt phone you as it is not my intention to get in touch with you to be friend or anything I just wanted your book to help me out doing my tutoring to Nepalese and Thai. It is strictly business nothing else.

Thanks

**James Hubbard** · 23rd October 2009

Originally Posted by jaishann

It is shallow idea not to contact your customer because of Walesrob, at the end of the day it is your book and not Walesrob's

Thanks

I agree with jaishann on this one ... but, trying to speak logic to blessbooks (as I pointed out many times already) the fundamental philosophical flaw of many of her mental meanderings - is that she's logically Fallacious. It's like beating your head against a brick wall!

Look, I think that your review of BB's customer service will do a service to potential future customers of hers ... they will know what to expect ... and more importantly, they will know what not to expect - that being courteous service or reasoned discussion!

**bless.books** · 23rd October 2009

Originally Posted by jaishann

Maybe you are in wrong place to advertise your book.I dont need to read the thread if Walesrob closed the thread i dont think it is because of your book it is maybe (im not sure ) because they dont promote friction here. I have sent you about 4 or 5 email so have you all deleted them by mistake? To be honest Bless I didnt think in my wildest dream that youd feel bad giving out your bank details to me as you were doing business. It is shallow idea not to contact your customer because of Walesrob, at the end of the day it is your book and not Walesrob's - you can help fili or other nationalities if you think your book is easier to use. The thing is you gave me your phone/mobile number and I didnt phone you as it is not my intention to get in touch with you to be friend or anything I just wanted your book to help me out doing my tutoring to Nepalese and Thai. It is strictly business nothing else. Thanks

Hello again jaishann! I didn't not say that the reason for it closed is my book. The thread has come to its demise bec of certain misunderstanding. As I mentioned in my other reply, I used the reply button to email you, and the first time I got your email, I thought I deleted, it was only at the end bit. At googlemail, you only have one email listed if you keep using the reply to button to the email sent you. I don't think I should explain all this. The fact is I deleted it by mistake. What shall I do? Now I was restricted to promote my book, what shall I do?

Yes, it was my primary reason to help people through my book, that is why I am sharing it. bec I know, this is the right forum, the right people and the right community. But I am not allowed to advertise, you said it yourself. Online is okay, but it is more expensive as you found out yourself.- that is the reason I am offering it direct from me.

I gave my landline/mobile/address to build trust as you gave your address noting that you are giving it in confidence. Phoning me as a seller and you as a customer doesn’t mean asking/obliging for friendship. If friendship happens, that would be great, if not, no worries.

I was expecting a bit of a leeway and not taking thing personally. We are all grown ups. It is not about who is beside us. I ask for cheque. or postal money order (if that is the word), you don’t have one, and you offer to ask for bank details. How can I reply when I do not know how, aside from this forum. It seems that there is no way I can explain my side without being misunderstood.

As I said, it was not my rule to make one feel like you felt.

**walesrob** · 24th October 2009

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