Giving out Details

[Sophie]

Hello jaishann! I've explained my side. It seems not acceptable to you. Well, there is nothing I can do about it. Let me just tell you that, you do not know the whole story and so, I wish that you give the one the benefit of the doubt. I offered my book here direct bec online it is more costly. And so this is what happened.

1) I put a thread
2) You showed interest
3) I gave my email add
4) You emailed, gave your address
5) I replied and gave my name,address,landline.mobile
6) You ask how to pay
7) I ask for cheque or money order (through postal) l
8) You said no cheque/or maybe you can jsut as fro details

All these were all in one email with 'reply button'. I didnt add your email address. So what do I have without you on my list, having deleted it accidentally.

I was expecting you could have a better judgement on this and not take things personally just bec I posted a thread.

Hi bless, i don't think jaishan took it personally.....
she was just surprised about reading this thread you made and thinking it might have something to do with the payment arrangement she proposed to you....
and not hearing from you after that and no response on her emails either, made her a bit upset, which is understandable, since she is in good faith and i can vouch for that.
I'm sure she would have understood if you told her early on about being unsure and uncomfortable with the idea of giving bank details.....
But you already apologized for the oversight and i commend you for that and i understand its just an honest mistake on your part.....
i'm sure she's fine about it now bless and i'm sure she did not take this personal at all

[jaishann]

Hi bless, i don't think jaishan took it personally.....
she was just surprised about reading this thread you made and thinking it might have something to do with the payment arrangement she proposed to you....
and not hearing from you after that and no response on her emails either, made her a bit upset, which is understandable, since she is in good faith and i can vouch for that.
I'm sure she would have understood if you told her early on about being unsure and uncomfortable with the idea of giving bank details.....
But you already apologized for the oversight and i commend you for that and i understand its just an honest mistake on your part.....
i'm sure she's fine about it now bless and i'm sure she did not take this personal at all

Hi sis you know me well. Youre right never took it personally i was just surprised having read the thread and the fact that she said she pressed the wrong button thats why she cant reply my email back then why not sent me a message in the same thread where we started because if you run through it you can see my message saying i did sent her an email and she said yes i read it then why no effort to do it again? I found it just making up an excuse what I was worried about is the book i promised to these people who needed help, but anyway thanks Sophie dear for your time. I am ok and I am still willing to buy her book once she sorted an easier way to get paid .Thanks again.

[jaishann]

Hello jaishann! I've explained my side. It seems not acceptable to you. Well, there is nothing I can do about it. Let me just tell you that, you do not know the whole story and so, I wish that you give the one the benefit of the doubt. I offered my book here direct bec online it is more costly. And so this is what happened.

1) I put a thread
2) You showed interest
3) I gave my email add
4) You emailed, gave your address
5) I replied and gave my name,address,landline.mobile
6) You ask how to pay
7) I ask for cheque or money order (through postal) l
8) You said no cheque/or maybe you can just get my bank details

All these were all in one email with 'reply button'. I didnt add your email address. So what do I have without you on my list, having deleted it accidentally.

I was expecting you could have a better judgement on this and not take things personally just bec I posted a thread.

I ignore things easy Bless especially if its not important, the point is I was honest with you why i needed 3 books right? i told my friends about it and you let me down by not responding to my email granting that you deleted it why not go back on the same thread where we started ? why not make the effort? You have time to start about two or three threads recently (home or away and this one) but not bothered to come back to me and say youre not comfy giving out your bank details as I wont think that way because I thought suppliers provide details so they can be paid. There is nothing personal here but you need to establish something when you are in business, that you are reliable and prepared if you get a buyer and how you want paying?.,consider the fact that not all people can afford to pay by cheque or by postal order (coz of the extra charge) did you not take into account setting up an account considering making sale in the future and not trembled when customer ask for your bank details ? thats all i am saying. I am still interested in your book as I have promised these people that I will get them one and it is authored by a Filipina, I gave them my word and i dont want to let them down. Just give us a bell when you sort something out. ..Thanks

[LEAHnew]

I admit your thread is informative as I'm keen to learn money online stuff but seems there's a misunderstanding here that u need to sort it out privately not to broadcast in Public forum especially business stuff

......... I offered my book here direct bec online it is more costly. And so this is what happened.

.........
I was expecting you could have a better judgement on this and not take things personally just bec I posted a thread.

You've been given a chance to share with it so don't go further
I guess it's not being judgemental just a clarification, you got the PM facility you should clarify to her privately before posting this thread

About time this nonsense thread was closed - way off topic

I think so.

Hi bless, i don't think jaishan took it personally.....
she was just surprised about reading this thread you made and thinking it might have something to do with the payment arrangement she proposed to you....
and not hearing from you after that and no response on her emails either, made her a bit upset, which is understandable, since she is in good faith and i can vouch for that.
I'm sure she would have understood if you told her early on about being unsure and uncomfortable with the idea of giving bank details.....
But you already apologized for the oversight and i commend you for that and i understand its just an honest mistake on your part.....
i'm sure she's fine about it now bless and i'm sure she did not take this personal at all

well said.. can I vote you as moderator

[James Hubbard]

To you JH! May I please ask you to refrain from being personal. I am not talking to you and this thread is all about 'Giving Out Details'

Jashann has misunderstood me and so i am replying back to her notes here. What is really our point of being here. Isnt' it to help and be helped? If it is not part of your creed to be nice to people, then I do n;t see the reason of one like you being here. Okay, you said something on one thread, I said something back, thread was closed. You made your point, I made mine ... what would you want to come out here? Grow up will you!

The diagnosis is in . . . I need to let Dr Letterman tell you . . .

[James Hubbard]

About time this nonsense thread was closed - way off topic

amen and amen

[James Hubbard]

I admit your thread is informative as I'm keen to learn money online stuff but seems there's a misunderstanding here that u need to sort it out privately not to broadcast in Public forum especially business stuff



You've been given a chance to share with it so don't go further
I guess it's not being judgemental just a clarification, you got the PM facility you should clarify to her privately before posting this thread



I think so.



well said.. can I vote you as moderator

You know what's gonna happen now? Mrs Sand-in-her-panties BB will come all guns blazing for you! She's like that!

[walesrob]

Erm

Can someone summarise in one sentence whats going on with this thread? I'm confused.com

[James Hubbard]

Erm

Can someone summarise in one sentence whats going on with this thread? I'm confused.com

Is this the Fil UK site? I thought it was the BlessBooks customer service portal, sorry po!

[jaishann]

Erm

Can someone summarise in one sentence whats going on with this thread? I'm confused.com

Sorry for the trouble Mod.

[jaishann]

About time this nonsense thread was closed - way off topic

Hi Dedworth It wasnt nonsense until I came out as you can see BB was given loads of advise and that is good. It was just a coincidence that the thread she started actually is an answer to my big question why she has not replied to my email. Just manners my friend saying i lost yourdetails please can you email me back? Thanks and Im fine if this thread will be closed.

[James Hubbard]

Just manners my friend saying i lost yourdetails please can you email me back?

It shows a lack of care for the customer of authoress, Inasmuch as it did that it was valuable also

[bless.books]

About time this nonsense thread was closed - way off topic

Hello dedworth! Yes, way off topic and now the focus in on me. Quite a bit frustrating.

[bless.books]

Hi bless, i don't think jaishan took it personally .....
she was just surprised about reading this thread you made and thinking it might have something to do with the payment arrangement she proposed to you .... and not hearing from you after that and no response on her emails either, made her a bit upset, which is understandable, since she is in good faith and i can vouch for that. I'm sure she would have understood if you told her early on about being unsure and uncomfortable with the idea of giving bank details ..... But you already apologized for the oversight and i commend you for that and i understand its just an honest mistake on your part ..... i'm sure she's fine about it now bless and i'm sure she did not take this personal at all

Hello Sophie! Well and good if that really is. The topic is giving out details, why then me and my book is dragged here on this thread. And to make the matter worst, lots are joining in taking sides. Is there no allowances here.
This thread is nothing to do with her.

She could have directed it to the other 'thread I started' ... to now I am reluctant to touch taking note of walesrob.

I feel I shouldn't be answering here in details but on the other hand I should if only to be understood. It has something to do with what we've encountered as of late. I've explained that I am into all sorts online. I put some adverts whereby putting my phone details and I was surprised to be phoned and asked my other details including bank. I said, I'll get back to him and that is where I started this thread.

[bless.books]

Hi sis you know me well. Youre right never took it personally i was just surprised having read the thread and the fact that she said she pressed the wrong button thats why she cant reply my email back then why not sent me a message in the same thread where we started because if you run through it you can see my message saying i did sent her an email and she said yes i read it then why no effort to do it again? I found it just making up an excuse what I was worried about is the book i promised to these people who needed help, but anyway thanks Sophie dear for your time. I am ok and I am still willing to buy her book once she sorted an easier way to get paid .Thanks again.

Hello jaishann! Yes, and that's what happened. I asked you to read the other closed thread, hoping you will understand my position. Saying those were my excuses, that is your opinion. I did not contact you where I contacted you in the first place bec of noting what walesrob. I am repeating her again that, I abandon the idea bec I don't want to come out pushing my book to you or anyone else. I no longer consider discussing nor promoting my book here and to put it honestly. I do not even want to talk about my book to anyone here.

[bless.books]

I ignore things easy Bless especially if its not important, the point is I was honest with you why i needed 3 books right? i told my friends about it and you let me down by not responding to my email granting that you deleted it why not go back on the same thread where we started ? why not make the effort? You have time to start about two or three threads recently (home or away and this one) but not bothered to come back to me and say youre not comfy giving out your bank details as I wont think that way because I thought suppliers provide details so they can be paid. There is nothing personal here but you need to establish something when you are in business, that you are reliable and prepared if you get a buyer and how you want paying?.,consider the fact that not all people can afford to pay by cheque or by postal order (coz of the extra charge) did you not take into account setting up an account considering making sale in the future and not trembled when customer ask for your bank details ? thats all i am saying. I am still interested in your book as I have promised these people that I will get them one and it is authored by a Filipina, I gave them my word and i dont want to let them down. Just give us a bell when you sort something out. ..Thanks

Hello again jaishann! I've explained above why I did not make an effort. And that is the reason why I started this 'thread' - to learn more on dealing online. I don't mind becoming a broken record here if only to make things clearer. I started this 'thread' before reading you email. I put a time with this 'thread' bec of the apparent circumstances we are in and it has nothing to do with you.

[bless.books]

Erm

Can someone summarise in one sentence whats going on with this thread? I'm confused.com

Hello walesrob! I started this thread hoping to get as muc hinformation I ccan get about 'Giving out Details' and maybe more on Transactions Online'
And now it is going off topic again. I do not wish to deviate myself _ I just want to answer the questions thrown at me.

Anything you might want to share about 'giving out detail' would be valuable here.

[bless.books]

Hi Dedworth It wasnt nonsense until I came out as you can see BB was given loads of advise and that is good. It was just a coincidence that the thread she started actually is an answer to my big question why she has not replied to my email. Just manners my friend saying i lost yourdetails please can you email me back? Thanks and Im fine if this thread will be closed.

Hello again jaishann! I am so grateful if I could get more infos about 'giving details from you and everone else. It makes me more aware and teaching me a lot. I do no think this 'thread is non sense' as you agreed. To close this is up to the people in charge, the decision is theirs.

You could have contacted my direct taking note of giving the benefit of the doubt.

[bless.books]

It shows a lack of care for the customer of authoress, Inasmuch as it did that it was valuable also

JH, I have to word for you ... just stick to my thread 'giving out details'

[Pepe n Pilar]

In my opinion, Jaishann was offended when she read this thread. She has good intension of buying the books and she has commitment with her students. I know how it feels. She is in good faith doing the transaction and was surprised when she read this thread. I suppose i will feel the same way if i were in her shoes.

To Bless, I have an experience before same as yours. I made a transaction online and payment will be done to my account. I gave out my bank details but thought of not to continue it for security reasons. So i am sure you feel the same way. Why not open a paypal account? The seller can set up a paypal account and so costumers can do the transaction thru paypal?

Maybe some members can give more advice about this.
Regards.
Cheers!

[jaishann]

Hello again jaishann! I am so grateful if I could get more infos about 'giving details from you and everone else. It makes me more aware and teaching me a lot. I do no think this 'thread is non sense' as you agreed. To close this is up to the people in charge, the decision is theirs.

You could have contacted my direct taking note of giving the benefit of the doubt.

I do not give my bank details myself Bless but if I am in a business I will try to open facilities for payment. Most people dont use cheque this days. Postal order - you need to go to the post office and pay charge.

Common ways to pay is by debit/credit card or for a private sale you can open a paypal account.

As you are selling your book on the internet I think you missed out the idea of how getting paid online as well.

If you have posted this thread before you read my email , fair enough but Ive not seen this thread before Oct 13 2009 this was the date we exchange emails, before we exchange emails i dropped you a line on your thread LIFE IN THE UK MADE EASY and you replied and that was Oct 13. granting on the same day you deleted my email you could have sent me a message on the same thread without mentioning your book if that was your worry.

[jaishann]

[QUOTE=bless.books;185721]. I don't mind becoming a broken record here if only to make things clearer.


Thats what you call call in UK :

When the *** hits the fan .

[jaishann]

In my opinion, Jaishann was offended when she read this thread. She has good intension of buying the books and she has commitment with her students. I know how it feels. She is in good faith doing the transaction and was surprised when she read this thread. I suppose i will feel the same way if i were in her shoes.

To Bless, I have an experience before same as yours. I made a transaction online and payment will be done to my account. I gave out my bank details but thought of not to continue it for security reasons. So i am sure you feel the same way. Why not open a paypal account? The seller can set up a paypal account and so your costumers can do the transaction thru paypal?

Maybe some of the members can give some advice about this.
Regards.
Cheers!

it was a shock ha ha. if we can work out the dates here when the post was made you can come up to saying o yes this is the reason why. Perfect timing i would say. Thank you dear.

[somebody]

Erm

Can someone summarise in one sentence whats going on with this thread? I'm confused.com

Excus me Mod no advertising please

[kimmi]

Excus me Mod no advertising please

to bless.book since Jaishann is still willing to buy ur book will it still be possible for her to pay u by any other means?

to jaishann is there any other ways bless.book can communicate with u re the purchasing of this Life in the UK book?

[tiN]

it will go on and on and on.. i think this thread need to be closed Mods

[walesrob]

to bless.book since Jaishann is still willing to buy ur book will it still be possible for her to pay u by any other means?

to jaishann is there any other ways bless.book can communicate with u re the purchasing of this Life in the UK book?

I'm sure Blessbooks and Jaishann can communicate via PM to complete this transaction, meanwhile thread is closed.