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    I agree with pumpkins, it doesn't matter where as long as I am with my second half. But there's no place like home Philippines will always be close to my


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    We have 2 choices in Pinas.
    Tagaytay or Sta Rosa. Place are both ready for us, but we're not yet ready
    Not yet ready to live like king and Queen.


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    I still like Philippines, here if your old you will just wait the heaven in old nursing home waiting for god, while in the philippines (just avoid the noise and humid) stay away from Manila will be fine,have walked every morning in a sorrounded by tress,making fire through the dried leaves and sit on a rope tie on the tress,listen to the chicken tik tilaok, dog running around the backyard,ahhh what a nice life in philippines.

    Ok I will be fair, if your retire here in the UK,you had money from govt. sometimes go town by car,used wheel chair or the electric car for old people,going ASDA/TESCO and if your children no longer look for you,they will sent you to nursing home or you will stay all by yourself in your house,cant get out everyday during winter cause you will feel cold,athritis.almoranas will attack during cold (this partly joke) no ants, no coakroaches, no mosquitoes

    My choice: Philippines, life was happy down there indeed.


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    Quote Originally Posted by September View Post
    I still like Philippines,

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    My choice: Philippines, life was happy down there indeed.

    September, I do think that you're very homesick, and from the general timber of your posts, it seems like you do not much like UK! So, when are you going back to Philippines next?


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    We don't know yet, we haven't decided just yet. Depends really, on finances and all(?) hehe. My answer did not help, did it?


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    Quote Originally Posted by September View Post
    I still like Philippines, here if your old you will just wait the heaven in old nursing home waiting for god, while in the philippines (just avoid the noise and humid) stay away from Manila will be fine,have walked every morning in a sorrounded by tress,making fire through the dried leaves and sit on a rope tie on the tress,listen to the chicken tik tilaok, dog running around the backyard,ahhh what a nice life in philippines.

    Ok I will be fair, if your retire here in the UK,you had money from govt. sometimes go town by car,used wheel chair or the electric car for old people,going ASDA/TESCO and if your children no longer look for you,they will sent you to nursing home or you will stay all by yourself in your house,cant get out everyday during winter cause you will feel cold,athritis.almoranas will attack during cold (this partly joke) no ants, no coakroaches, no mosquitoes

    My choice: Philippines, life was happy down there indeed.
    have you been here before?

    i thought you have only been here a week on a visit visa but you know alot about being old in the uk.

    if your old in the philipines you need money to live,isnt having lots of kids to look after you the reason they you have so many

    like a pension plan,isnt it
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    have you been here before?

    i thought you have only been here a week on a visit visa but you know alot about being old in the uk.

    if your old in the philipines you need money to live,isnt having lots of kids to look after you the reason they you have so many

    like a pension plan,isnt it
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    Quote Originally Posted by bless.books View Post
    Hello tawi2! You're probably right about being overcrowded. Oh, I would like Spain myself. But you only have two choices - UK or Philippines - I will take UK as your answer. About what age?
    See tawi, i told you so, lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by September View Post
    I still like Philippines, here if your old you will just wait the heaven in old nursing home waiting for god, while in the philippines (just avoid the noise and humid) stay away from Manila will be fine,have walked every morning in a sorrounded by tress,making fire through the dried leaves and sit on a rope tie on the tress,listen to the chicken tik tilaok, dog running around the backyard,ahhh what a nice life in philippines.

    Ok I will be fair, if your retire here in the UK,you had money from govt. sometimes go town by car,used wheel chair or the electric car for old people,going ASDA/TESCO and if your children no longer look for you,they will sent you to nursing home or you will stay all by yourself in your house,cant get out everyday during winter cause you will feel cold,athritis.almoranas will attack during cold (this partly joke) no ants, no coakroaches, no mosquitoes

    My choice: Philippines, life was happy down there indeed.
    Quote Originally Posted by James Hubbard View Post

    September, I do think that you're very homesick, and from the general timber of your posts, it seems like you do not much like UK! So, when are you going back to Philippines next?
    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    have you been here before?

    i thought you have only been here a week on a visit visa but you know alot about being old in the uk.

    if your old in the philipines you need money to live,isnt having lots of kids to look after you the reason they you have so many

    like a pension plan,isnt it
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    Quote Originally Posted by Queenbee View Post
    I wanna buy an island in pinas(beach house on a fine white sand,crystal blue waters and a massive boat or yatch) and jst grow old there with ma man...hehehe
    Good luck Queenbee that's my plan too but not likely to happen unless I win the lottery


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    Quote Originally Posted by bless.books View Post
    Hello Sophie I will take Pinas as your answer. It is that okay? Same here. I love Tagaytay!
    Yeah, no place like home as they say....My hubby loves tagaytay when i brought him there a couple of times before....
    And the weather is cold there so he won't struggle with the heat unlike in the city (las pinas) where i live....
    So tagaytay is a place worth considering in the future
    But that's still a long long way ahead, plans could still change... We'll see where we end up by then
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    Quote Originally Posted by bless.books View Post
    Hello tawi2! You're probably right about being overcrowded. Oh, I would like Spain myself. But you only have two choices - UK or Philippines - I will take UK as your answer. About what age?
    Hobsons choice



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    thanks to whomever repped me muchly appreciated!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bless.books View Post
    Hello everyone! I am starting this thread HOME or AWAY. I will start with a premise that - Home - Philippines and Away- UK

    If you are Filipino/Naturalised British home is Philipppines
    If you are Native/British living in the Philippines home is UK

    It would be interesting to know where will you spend your retirement, home or away? I dont mean, where do you wish but where will you really retire, be specific Philippines or UK and why? And what could be the age of retirement for you? Others go earlier than the retirable age.
    I have opened this topic to my husband but can't decide yet. Actually either of the 2 as long as we are together. If not in the Phils probably in Spain because of the weather, beaches, the culture and the food (i love paella huh!). Philippines was colonised by the Spaniards for 400 yrs?(correct me if i'm wrong) and filipinos use Spanish words in filipino language and/or in some of the dialects. My maternal grandfather has a Spanish descent. Oh so my answer is away..

    " The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
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    Well as for the 2 choices,

    I know for a fact that we will be retiring in Philippines when the time (savings) comes...

    But just now, we are both enjoying life here in the UK, as we both know that we have more opportunities here to save money for our retirement
    It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.


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    Spaniards colonised pinas for 333 years P&P,unless my memory is failing me I have a few books somewhere in storage on pinoy history,havent read them in years though so you maybe right about 400 years,I just remember 333 figured in it somewhere Chavacano,zambos dialect is an old spanish creole,if ever you get the chance to visit check out Fort Pilar a short walk from Lantaka Spains going to be crowded with oldies



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    Quote Originally Posted by September View Post
    I still like Philippines, here if your old you will just wait the heaven in old nursing home waiting for god, while in the philippines (just avoid the noise and humid) stay away from Manila will be fine,have walked every morning in a sorrounded by tress,making fire through the dried leaves and sit on a rope tie on the tress,listen to the chicken tik tilaok, dog running around the backyard,ahhh what a nice life in philippines.

    Ok I will be fair, if your retire here in the UK,you had money from govt. sometimes go town by car,used wheel chair or the electric car for old people,going ASDA/TESCO and if your children no longer look for you,they will sent you to nursing home or you will stay all by yourself in your house,cant get out everyday during winter cause you will feel cold,athritis.almoranas will attack during cold (this partly joke) no ants, no coakroaches, no mosquitoes

    My choice: Philippines, life was happy down there indeed.
    You seem so homesick September. Knowing you just arrived in this country last month. Is this your second time on a visit/tourist visa? You seem not excited being in this beautiful country. I just noticed it unlike Queenbee and some members they are sooooo excited and i know how it feels because I was in the same situation before.

    You're right i agree with your statements about getting old here they will stay in the home for the aged. There are advantages and disadvantages staying in the nursing home. But sometimes it is better to be with the same age group and being accepted, taken cared of and needed rather than being with relatives and not to feel the same.
    " The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
    They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Spaniards colonised pinas for 333 years P&P,unless my memory is failing me I have a few books somewhere in storage on pinoy history,havent read them in years though so you maybe right about 400 years,I just remember 333 figured in it somewhere Chavacano,zambos dialect is an old spanish creole,if ever you get the chance to visit check out Fort Pilar a short walk from Lantaka Spains going to be crowded with oldies
    Thanks Tawi2 i'm near the figures of the correct answer.
    Even Bicol dialect has Spanish words as well, Yes Chavacanos alsoDon't know other dialects Tawi2. I might ask you to teach me. You're very good in all of the filipino dialects Thanks. I would love to visit those places when i go back to the Phils.
    " The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
    They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "


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    Quote Originally Posted by James Hubbard View Post

    September, I do think that you're very homesick, and from the general timber of your posts, it seems like you do not much like UK! So, when are you going back to Philippines next?
    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    have you been here before?

    i thought you have only been here a week on a visit visa but you know alot about being old in the uk.

    if your old in the philipines you need money to live,isnt having lots of kids to look after you the reason they you have so many

    like a pension plan,isnt it
    Yes, I am homesick, unfortunately but trying to be patience as I am shy to my fiancee, as he spend lots of money and effort to bring me here.

    And Bornabirth its just so happen that I am very observant whether I will stay here after the marraige or live in Philippines, and when I was young I worked in goverment so I managed to had my private pension plan and active the GSIS as well, I am working in Congress for 15 years, and file for 6 months leave, and so I need to decide after 6 months whether I will live here or carry on working to my boss in congress.


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    Quote Originally Posted by September View Post
    Yes, I am homesick, unfortunately but trying to be patience as I am shy to my fiancee, as he spend lots of money and effort to bring me here.

    And Bornabirth its just so happen that I am very observant whether I will stay here after the marraige or live in Philippines, and when I was young I worked in goverment so I managed to had my private pension plan and active the GSIS as well, I am working in Congress for 15 years, and file for 6 months leave, and so I need to decide after 6 months whether I will live here or carry on working to my boss in congress.
    Well, speaking as someone who has lived in the both countries, I would suggest that if you're gonna stick around the UK that you learn to like it - or even love it - otherwise, you'll be unhappy the whole time, and that's no way to start a marriage.

    That's just some advice from my own experience.


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    Quote Originally Posted by pumpkins View Post
    hi bless.books
    my husband is here with me now so we been busy together..we been to an island "we treat as our paradise".. no internet there and far away from the city, hard transportation..that is where we plan to live when we come here full time ...so now we are back here in our house and we just keep tracking spouse application and we making our self busy here..as of now we are playing scrabble..so while its my husband turn ( long waiting) am reading forum.
    [

    nice to hear from you bless.books
    Hello pumpkins! Yeah, great to know what you are up to. That is one good break! I do like scrabble as well. Well, who know, maybe one day icome and visit both of you when that time comes. It is a bit too early to think of retirement when you are just starting. It is just worth knowing. All the best and maybe we meet up here?


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    Quote Originally Posted by liane View Post
    I agree with pumpkins, it doesn't matter where as long as I am with my second half. But there's no place like home Philippines will always be close to my
    Hello liane! Thank you for sharing. We have the thoughts, anywhere will do. But as we all come to that - retirement ... it would be worth thinking about it this early, so we can prepare for it, perhaps saving more ...


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    Quote Originally Posted by pennybarry View Post
    We have 2 choices in Pinas.
    Tagaytay or Sta Rosa. Place are both ready for us, but we're not yet ready
    Not yet ready to live like king and Queen.
    Hello pennybarry! Thank you for sharing. Hey, I like that ... hoow about us in it ... hahaha. It is nice to know that, your husband wants to live there.


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    Quote Originally Posted by September View Post
    I still like Philippines, here if your old you will just wait the heaven in old nursing home waiting for god, while in the philippines (just avoid the noise and humid) stay away from Manila will be fine,have walked every morning in a sorrounded by tress,making fire through the dried leaves and sit on a rope tie on the tress,listen to the chicken tik tilaok, dog running around the backyard,ahhh what a nice life in philippines.

    Ok I will be fair, if your retire here in the UK,you had money from govt. sometimes go town by car,used wheel chair or the electric car for old people,going ASDA/TESCO and if your children no longer look for you,they will sent you to nursing home or you will stay all by yourself in your house,cant get out everyday during winter cause you will feel cold,athritis.almoranas will attack during cold (this partly joke) no ants, no coakroaches, no mosquitoes

    My choice: Philippines, life was happy down there indeed.

    Hello September! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I don't think I could add more to that ...


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    Quote Originally Posted by September View Post
    Yes, I am homesick, unfortunately but trying to be patience as I am shy to my fiancee, as he spend lots of money and effort to bring me here.

    And Bornabirth its just so happen that I am very observant whether I will stay here after the marraige or live in Philippines, and when I was young I worked in goverment so I managed to had my private pension plan and active the GSIS as well, I am working in Congress for 15 years, and file for 6 months leave, and so I need to decide after 6 months whether I will live here or carry on working to my boss in congress.
    Hi september, you are quite a good observer, keep it up
    And being homesick is normal, specially for someone like you who's just been here a little over a week....
    By the way, what department/division in Congress are you working for, if you don't mind?
    I have a close friend who works in congress, you probably bump into each other already
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    Whats your retirement plan Bless?



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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay&Zobel View Post
    We don't know yet, we haven't decided just yet. Depends really, on finances and all(?) hehe. My answer did not help, did it?
    Hello jay&zobel! Thanks for joining in. Yes, finance is a consideration. And that is what I am really aiming here. Ready or not, that one day will come and are expected to have at elast prepared for it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by JimOttley View Post
    Good luck Queenbee that's my plan too but not likely to happen unless I win the lottery
    Hello JimOttely! Yes, you can do it ...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tawi2 View Post
    Whats your retirement plan Bless?
    making a fortune from selling books online
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
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