We will only just spend some few hours at the cemetery (grandparents in my dad side) in the morning then proceed to another cemetery (grandparents on my mom side). But before we used to hang around at cemetery with some relatives, because that's the only time you got to see them.
At night time (around 6pm) we would be just at home and light some candles around the house and pray the holy rosary ( for the souls of our departed love ones).