Quote Originally Posted by mickcant View Post
Hi Arthur and all,
When she disapeared stright after we married, In the 3rd month I did see a solicitor who of course said I could not start a divorce untill a year after the wedding
so we then rewrite my will to make it as difficult as possible for her to inherate after my death.
I need to dig the will out to be sure but I think it was done by putting address unknown, which was true I know I did not tell him her family address in CDO.
I am going to print most of the groups replies so I can go through them better.
Jennifer last contacted me to say she was home on the 14th October so I expect I will next hear from her when the £500 I gave her when she went home has gone, I will then ignor her messages and let her stew as she did me after the wedding.
I would be very suprised if she turned up here (unless she has saved some money)
I would expect her to say she wanted to come back and needed the money for the fare! and of course she will get no more money.

She did say when she was here that she wanted a job that paid good money and was upset when I said there were not many that paid much on the Isle of Wight.
As far as my estate goes she has allready had most of it anyhow.
I live in an Housing Assocation flat, so there is no money from that.
Thanks everyone you have all helped get my head stright.
Mick.
Hi all,
Aslight correction to the post above, Jennifer did contact me a few times after she arrived home at CDO, mostly to say she is arranging the operations of her siblings, I had allready paid £3,000 towards this and they were to have the operations in July, her father was going to pay the rest, but has not come up with the money.
It may be she thinks I will now pay the balance so that she will then return here?
She must think I have a bottomless pit of money, despite my telling her not.

We had an appointment at my bank to open a seperate account for her fed from mine for 2 days after she decided to go home, I am relived we did not do that before.

She will be getting no reply or money when/if she does contact me about that.

I have removed her photos I had on the walls including our wedding ones and have stored them in a cubbard for now.

All the best,
Mick.