Mick - I haven't commented so far - for good reasons as far as I'm concerned.
Your family here on the forum (myself included) is only able to make comments based upon what you have stated with regard to your situation - and put forward their own personal views.
Of course, only YOU know the real truth and the real situation - none of us could come anywhere near to guessing what goes on behind the closed doors of your relationship - and therefore we come down to advising you based upon what has happened to you.
However, a lot of us have experience in matters of the heart as it were, and we have learned to spot 'red flags.'
Mick, if you will allow me, and I sincerely apologise if I am wrong, but I spot a HUGE red flag here! I only hope that I am wrong!!
I - and everyone else on your thread, are looking out for you Mick. I really hope that you know what you are doing.
If I DO turn out to be wrong, then I surrender to your chastisement!
Al.
