H mick , read your other post about jennifer.. I have a gut feel that she has another man in her life... I was outraged when i read about it..
I am from mindanao and i hate what she did to you..
I suggest that have that divorce soon, she cant contest it.. You got legal grounds on that.Even in Phils laws, her actuations is manifestation of the incapacity to fulfill her marital obligations..
Dont give anymore money to her.