Hi Mick, I am really sorry to hear what has happened to you. You must be feeling dreadful as well.

I am recently divorced and found a really good support web site at wikivorce.co.uk not only is there lots of free practical and legal advice on there but lots of support from others in similar situations.

I found the site a life saver and I managed to do my divorce on a DIY basis for less than £ 1,000 with their help. I know your situation is different but I am sure that there will be someone on there who could help and advise. Anyway just a suggestion.

If you do join just PM me if you need any help.