just wanna ask and wondering how you guys each individually in this question... HOW YOU TREATING OR HOW YOU WANNA TREAT YOUR PARTNER IN LIFE? WIFE,GF,LIVING PARTNER.. and what you expect in return that make you happy??
just wanna ask and wondering how you guys each individually in this question... HOW YOU TREATING OR HOW YOU WANNA TREAT YOUR PARTNER IN LIFE? WIFE,GF,LIVING PARTNER.. and what you expect in return that make you happy??
Going by the golden rule "Treat each other the way you want to be treated" is ideally the best way to go.....
But sometimes we don't always take the golden rule by heart and we tend to expect more from our partners and give little in return....
But every relationship is a learning process and the beauty of it all, is that every moment with our husbands/wives/partners
is an opportunity to grow as a person and likewise as a couple....
"10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% is decided by how you react"
"The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost"
well i treat my wife the same way i expect to be treated,as an equal partner not a scivvy.i will do my share of the housework and cooking and generally spoil her rotten
well, i cook for my fiancee... and he washes the dishes after.... lol .. fair share...
wait..did i answer the question? lol
My hubby treats me for shopping and SPA! He also cook, and do all the household chores. My Mum tells me that I am not a good wife coz I treat my hubby like a slave. Joke! Seriously, hubby doesn't want me to do anything when he's here.
Hubby works oftentimes,
I do the washing and love it!, because I always found bils and coins in his pocket.
hmmmm interesting...Key words: meaningful, together, loving, sharing, smile, inspire, enlighten, genuine, sincere. These are words that within consideration can create the romantic moment you look for.
Don't forget the element of surprise! Being a hopeless romantic like i am is not soo bad,,,Id cook for him,massage him and have a steamy bubble bath together,,,In return,he gives me flowers not only on special occassions,writes me poems everyday and love letters,,,hehe,,Just do things together...
The most important thing is COMMUNICATE..To talk and appreciate each other.Talk with and most importantly LISTEN to your partner to find clues on how to sweetly surprise one another with meaningful expressions of love. Know your partner and what he/she likes. Be thoughtful!Show appreciation! It's important to say THANK YOU and return the gesture..whether you are the giver or the receiver!
For those of you who are still having difficulty, try showing the other how you would like to be treated. There is nothing wrong with teaching someone how to love you - it does not indicate a weak relationship. In fact it can strengthen a relationship to last a lifetime. And that lesson can be part of the fun as well. So go get your study on!
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