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    Quote Originally Posted by sadly confuse View Post
    i am getting worst....
    all i can say is your selfish and stupidsorry
    all things are possible!


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    Quote Originally Posted by vbkelly View Post
    all i can say is your selfish and stupidsorry
    come on guys,why are you being so harsh on her.

    sadly confused posted to get it off her chest and get some advice from us and not to give her a hard time in our replies

    apart from the culture shock and needing time to adjust to being a wife and married life and i guess arguing with your husband,makes you miss your single life back in the philipines even more?

    you are in the uk and married and time to act like the wife,you have a different life than before...your stuck at home all day while your hubby is at work and your getting very bored with no one to talk to...im not surprised your mind is wondering?

    my wife missed her single life and took time to adjust too,it happens to most filipinas i guess,best thing to do is talk to your husband about everything you feel,so you both can resolve many of the problems your facing

    btw after reading your post you do sound like a ungrateful spoiled brat but you also say your trying hard to be a good wife.

    try making friends,start posting a blog in this forum like pocahontas ,just try to be positive in your new life

    so goodluck
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    come on guys,why are you being so harsh on her.
    I'm inclined to agree. Apart from the obvious difficulties in adjusting to the cultural changes, jobs in general here, are difficult to come by ... let alone work in line with a person's skills and/or abilities.

    And then again, the British weather is enough to get most folk down ... especially the dismal approach of our winter - with its long, dark nights. Has anyone considered the possibility that this young lady may well be suffering from an increasingly common form of clinical depression - which has come to be known as 'Seasonal Affective Disorder' [SAD] - for instance?

    So, let's all rally round, and give her as much support as we can offer ...


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    come on guys,why are you being so harsh on her.

    sadly confused posted to get it off her chest and get some advice from us and not to give her a hard time in our replies

    apart from the culture shock and needing time to adjust to being a wife and married life and i guess arguing with your husband,makes you miss your single life back in the philipines even more?

    you are in the uk and married and time to act like the wife,you have a different life than before...your stuck at home all day while your hubby is at work and your getting very bored with no one to talk to...im not surprised your mind is wondering?

    my wife missed her single life and took time to adjust too,it happens to most filipinas i guess,best thing to do is talk to your husband about everything you feel,so you both can resolve many of the problems your facing

    btw after reading your post you do sound like a ungrateful spoiled brat but you also say your trying hard to be a good wife.

    try making friends,start posting a blog in this forum like pocahontas ,just try to be positive in your new life

    so goodluck
    i just can't believed she's doing that behind her husband if she's getting bored and insane of her life here in uk, why she don't talk and open that to her husband instead of keeping to herself so she can have a peace of mind and her husband will help her to keep out of that situation. of course everybody does missed our filipino way of life.
    all things are possible!


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    Quote Originally Posted by vbkelly View Post
    i just can't believed she's doing that behind her husband if she's getting bored and insane of her life here in uk, why she don't talk and open that to her husband instead of keeping to herself so she can have a peace of mind and her husband will help her to keep out of that situation. of course everybody does missed our filipino way of life.
    your quite right!

    and from her post she does seem a little bad,well a lot bad

    but maybe some good advice is better than criticising her
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
    your quite right!

    and from her post she does seem a little bad,well a lot bad

    but maybe some good advice is better than criticising her
    definitely agree 110 percent!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by vbkelly View Post
    i just can't believed she's doing that behind her husband if she's getting bored and insane of her life here in uk, why she don't talk and open that to her husband instead of keeping to herself so she can have a peace of mind and her husband will help her to keep out of that situation. of course everybody does missed our filipino way of life.
    Yes, ... she SHOULD be more open with her husband. But there again, some people just find it easier to share their feelings with others who are (shall we say) more "detached" from the reality of certain situations.


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