why i just cant change..

[bornatbirth]

i just can't believed she's doing that behind her husband if she's getting bored and insane of her life here in uk, why she don't talk and open that to her husband instead of keeping to herself so she can have a peace of mind and her husband will help her to keep out of that situation. of course everybody does missed our filipino way of life.

your quite right!

and from her post she does seem a little bad,well a lot bad

but maybe some good advice is better than criticising her

[xfactor]

Hey Sadly Confuse, my suggestion is watch X-Factor every Saturdays and Sundays, watch soaps on telly. It's free. Kidding aside, I could understand a little bit of your "materialistic nature" but we all work very hard for our money and there's plenty of work out there. I believe your just being picky or lazy, which one? Are you willing to do any hard work at all?

[Arthur Little]

i just can't believed she's doing that behind her husband if she's getting bored and insane of her life here in uk, why she don't talk and open that to her husband instead of keeping to herself so she can have a peace of mind and her husband will help her to keep out of that situation. of course everybody does missed our filipino way of life.

Yes, ... she SHOULD be more open with her husband. But there again, some people just find it easier to share their feelings with others who are (shall we say) more "detached" from the reality of certain situations.

[Queenbee]

Hey Sadly Confuse, my suggestion is watch X-Factor every Saturdays and Sundays, watch soaps on telly. It's free. Kidding aside, I could understand a little bit of your "materialistic nature" but we all work very hard for our money and there's plenty of work out there. I believe your just being picky or lazy, which one? Are you willing to do any hard work at all?

ur a big fan of xfactor huh,,,

[Queenbee]

your quite right!

and from her post she does seem a little bad,well a lot bad

but maybe some good advice is better than criticising her

definitely agree 110 percent!!!

[ca143]

forget ur ex so that u have peace of mind............if u want success then work for it....

[aphrodite78]

Hi sc,

Oh dear seems to me u are trying very hard but it's not working.

have u even asked yourself am I inlove w/ my husband or am I inlove with the relationship?

I know adjusting is very difficult but if you love your man everything becomes tolerable (not saying u become a martyr) because you see everything becomes enjoyable and not perceived as a task. It comes out naturally because you love the person you are with. If u just love the relationship then Houston we got a major problem here, you can always have a relationship with different man other than your husband. Maybe it's about time you reflect and be honest and ask yourself.

Good luck and hope everything works out for you both.

[Arthur Little]

there's plenty of work out there.

I beg to differ ... NOT HERE, there ain't!

[September]

Don't hold your breath......

Yeah, release it

[ANDRES25]

you're lucky, you got ur own house to live and your husband is not in debt. just keep on looking for a job. I understand ur situation but just be thankful of what u have and don't give up on ur marriage because of money or shopping.