Quote Originally Posted by pennybarry View Post
Hey gurl! Cool down! You're getting a bit crazy na ehehe hakhak!
You are too eager to find a job. I'm sure you feel boring whilst hubby is at work. Maybe badly in need shopping money? Want to help family in Pinas or want to help hubby finacially.
You're still young, there are many choices still. All you need to have is patience.
You can study at college as long as you have money. Tell hubby about it, so you'll not feel the boredom.
Go to charity shops to volunteer, no wages but in the future you can have references.
Yes, you can choose to have babies. But you need to weigh all those things before you make your firm decisions.

I don't work at the moment, receiving benefits from govt, hubby and Mum studying 2 courses. One in Edinburgh, One in our local centre. I want to study than working but I want to have my own hard earned money.
Sent you yahoo message.

Goodluck!
ate penny?..why are you older than me not oviousss yep id just add you in my ym this morning when i open THANKS. id just need to log off again coz busy in the morning. like eat breakfast and hm.. cleaning and exercise.. and ofcours assist your husband. coz im making a sandwich for him to bring on hes lunch time.

i see so you just stay home right now and receiving govt benefits?? is that right?? hm.. how long youve been here in uk? me not morethan 8months but it makes me feel ive been here for sooo longggg..

im sorry but if i have a rich husband i will be happy to receive hes own money and give to me.. but since my husband not rich.. then i really need to find job whether i like or not.. but..ofcours i wanna work and learn new things who doesnt want..

yeah when i got job i want to send money back jusst like i used to be too. and hm.. ofcours i wanna help my husband in our finances kung baga stand by lang ako if anything goes wrong or kinapos ba.. then last but not the least i would like to give my self pleasure just like what i used to be too.. i so misss that.. but..well i will only have that all when i get job.. THATS WHY I DONT STOP LOOKING FOR JOB... but i guess sophie is right what she advice to sc that we s hould try harderrrr.. though im scared..

btw i also read your thread to sc big problem.. well for her.. but im glad that its sounds you do understand but also stand for the right decision. me too i think she just want to be honest to her self though its too late. i hope we manage to get job and get out of what our fearss

chat you soon......