with Aphrodite....
Try and contact the relevant ECO if u can.
If u have been to the Philippines 3x in the last year, it's not as if you've
"abandoned" your wife, nor she you.
You need to ask the ECO what is his concern.... what do you need to do,
or provide, to alleviate those concerns.
This might be able to be sorted out one-on-one, with you either prioviding
the additional information, or you clarrifying information already provided.
..... and hopefully you don't have to go down the appeal route.
Good luck
