
Originally Posted by
justchecking
hi, I just spent 14 months living with my (now) husband and daughter in the philippines - i renewed my visitor visa every 2 months (which needs budgeting, you can renew in laguna or manila from batangas though, so fairly simple) but we lived on around £350 a month - a small apartment, unfurnished, nothing at all fancy, used public transport and the local market - but for both me and my husband it was the most affluence we have ever experienced (I came back for my daughters education as private school was out of the question financially).
It seems there are some questions to ponder but I would suggest you ponder them over there with your lady - you could discuss them forever without ever getting close to an answer (I wasted nearly 8 years)- give yourself a time limit if it makes you feel better, go for 6 months, see how you feel and then decide about the next 6 months, after a year you'll have a much better idea of the issues - and probably a whole stack of new things to wonder about!
live life your way..........