My wife and I seem to have this sorted out (that's what I thought 3 months ago, but fingers crossed!). I've decided I need to stop digging into this as and just trust her to know her boundaries.
I'm disappointed she can't see my angle on this and respect my feelings though. Am I going mad or shouldn't your wife fancy other women and say fruity stuff with them on the internet? It's the Filipino sense of humour she says. I'll let it run its course and hope she gets bored (or a job) quickly.
