husband exuses

[September]

Womans instinct, well if you feel he is, you maybe right,my opinion

but i dont know what kind of woman you are, you havent find whether your instinct say true or false, and now your saying if the husband can do ,why wife cant do it..

put in your mind that mistake cant be correct by other mistake, hope u understand what i mean

[el capitan]

Mobile phones are horrible anti social devices, not being answered for a couple of hours seems to be a bigger problem than, being out of contact for the full day or several days ever used to be. Even the ringtones are just plane rude, its as if someone has walked up to you and started jabbing a finger in your side insisting you talk to them whether you want to or not.

[nigel]

People tend to blink when they lie, and sometimes bring their hand up over their mouth, as if to 'cover their lying mouth'.

[JimOttley]

hello Jim


exactly you and my husband talks the same things odd isnt it

i married for love and trust and not being deceive nor lied.

Hi again Ross.

Sorry but I do not wish to ask too many private questions, so please do not answer unless you are comfortable answering. I have read some of your other threads and I understand you are trying to apply for spouse visa and British passport for your child just now and I guess your husband is in the UK at present while you are still in the Philippines?

Your opening question on your thread was a little surprising in that context as it's a really open ended question with no real answer, you hint in your reply to my comment that I seem to have touched a nerve and that your issues may well be about communication between you and your partner and possibly you are losing trust in him for that reason?

When you are separated by 8 hours in time and 6500 miles distance it is very easy to feel you are being ignored when you do not get an answer to a telephone call but there really are many innocent reasons why this can happen and to see a problem where none exists can really hurt your relationship with your partner.

Ask yourself if there has been a big change in the way you talk to each other.

When you do talk are you always arguing about not keeping in touch enough or arguing over your suspicions?

Have you got money problems as a family either here in the UK or in the Philippines or maybe even both?

Does your husband support you and your child properly?

I have a great deal of sympathy for your uncertainty and worry, but you should not be quick to lose trust in your husband particularly if you have never had any reason to doubt him in the past?

I hope you regain your trust in him and I hope that he is truly deserving of your trust but you are the only person who can judge that and if you have been together a long time you should have a good basis for trusting each other already.

Jim

[whiteraven]

Hi again Ross.

Sorry but I do not wish to ask too many private questions, so please do not answer unless you are comfortable answering. I have read some of your other threads and I understand you are trying to apply for spouse visa and British passport for your child just now and I guess your husband is in the UK at present while you are still in the Philippines?

Your opening question on your thread was a little surprising in that context as it's a really open ended question with no real answer, you hint in your reply to my comment that I seem to have touched a nerve and that your issues may well be about communication between you and your partner and possibly you are losing trust in him for that reason?

When you are separated by 8 hours in time and 6500 miles distance it is very easy to feel you are being ignored when you do not get an answer to a telephone call but there really are many innocent reasons why this can happen and to see a problem where non exists can really hurt your relationship with your partner.

Ask yourself if there has been a big change in the way you talk to each other.

When you do talk are you always arguing about not keeping in touch enough or arguing over your suspicions?

Have you got money problems as a family either here in the UK or in the Philippines or maybe even both?

Does your husband support you and your child properly?

I have a great deal of sympathy for your uncertainty and worry, but you should not be quick to lose trust in your husband particularly if you have never had any reason to doubt him in the past?

I hope you regain your trust in him and I hope that he is truly deserving of your trust but you are the only person who can judge that and if you have been together a long time you should have a good basis for trusting each other already.

Jim

seems to be a common problem with long distance relationships, dont jump to conlusions without proof its esasy to judge from a distance!!

[JimOttley]

seems to be a common problem with long distance relationships, dont jump to conlusions without proof its esasy to judge from a distance!!

Exactly! and it is also very painful to be on the receiving end of unwarranted suspicion

In an LDR there has to be that extra bit of trust on both sides.


Jim