Ah Rossvery sad to hear you say that, if you see similarities in your situation to what I describe then you need to ask yourself how does your husband express his love for you and look into your own heart and ask if his behaviour is that of a loving husband or the actions of a man who hiding something.
I hope the mistrust between you and your husband is not over such simple things because if it is then you are probably both very upset just now and probably over nothing.
And as an "excuse" from me for not trying to reply in more detail right now I must apologise to you as I am on my lunch break and I have to get back to work but I will try to expand my reply to you later.
Seriously I hope your problems with your husband are not over little things like this because once the suspicion starts it hurts both husband and wife so much.
Jim