Quote Originally Posted by beth18 View Post
I just read Pocahontas thread about finding a job and here I am contemplating about quiting mine.

The first time I came to UK as a visitor I took ECDL whilst my the bf go to work, in 3 months I had comlpeted the 6 modules and passed all the test, my certificate is somewhere in my files now. this coming 30th I'm graduating my Diploma course in IT at the London College of Computing.

Apart from going to college, taking care of the flat and my husband's breakfast and dinner, I managed to land on a part time job September last year in a japanese company, in their fine dining reataurant somewhere at Piccadilly.

I work 5 hours a day 4 times a week and manage an average of £500 a month which is not bad, cos i keep everything for my self alone. My husband pays for every single bills including my mobile contarct and reagularly sends money to my daughter in the Phils. and I have a weekly house keeping allowance for our food.

I love my job as Chef's assistant. for filipinas it should be very easy cos its just working in your own kitchen, I practically work with Japanese people for 14 months now, but things changed....

When this new Chef came recently and the old nice Chef quit.

this young japanese Chef (32) is just so good at his job but not with managing the people, all my friends are gone because of him, and some are quitting soon, even the japanese staff cant stand at his insulting words, and moody attitude. Everyday is agony for everybody thats the kind of atmosphere he gives.

We all work with fear, cos he will humiliate anyone that makes mistake. So we always finish work with physical, menatally and emotional stresses.

People say that Chef's are normally crazy.

Now, I even do cooking Japanese food for Bento take aways after they trained me for a week, which i like cos they trust me to cook the Japanese food. I train the new comers as well. and do the dessert for the restaurant.

I can even take 1 month holiday and still come back to work for them. But I am not sure if I can still stand the situation which making me emotionally ill.

Should I quit?
Hi! Beth18, just read your post on here.... only i can say that if I am, I will not quit that job because it is the work you can challenges your self on how you handle people like that. It is a trials now come to your way while you are working. Just don't mind what he is doing as long as you do your work good enough just enough or have time to chika for him/her sometime if you have time to know him/her well. Some people are very strict or sometime they dont know or think they hurt others but if you try to consult and be frank to them sometime, you can see on there heart they are good too. Yes, how nice to think you can buy anything what you want or even to make your hubby or family happy by not asking an amount for your partner. It is easy to quit a job but it is hard to find a good job.. just my opinion but it is you the one who can decide on it ... good luck beth18